@caracross1, @uhohitskyra @firefly aw alright thank you !

you can always do a christening instead

Depends on the denomination and clergy person. I can tell you as a clergy person I would not feel comfortable without having a conversation with the parents first. Baptism is a very big step with lots of responsibility. Lots of prayers (:

I just called our local church about baptism and the priest told me that both me and my husband need to be Catholic and active in the church, as well as the God parents.

no problem, good luck :)

@marleynhendrix, aw ok thank you !

during* not firing

I believe that he could baptize the baby and have god parents of the same religion. but I don't think you would be able to be involved firing the baptism because your not catholic and your not married. you might want to double check with his priest.

I don't have a religion but my bf is catholic @marleynhendrix

what religion are you?