my 3 year old and my 3 day old arent getting along yet when my new born crys my older son tells him no and when i pick him up he wants me so i lay my new born on my lags and play with my older one then when my older son crys i cuddle him then my new born crys so i have to try to cuddle both of them my 3 year old is deff jelly abd it makes me feel like crap