@firstbaby_girl, I don't think they would, they don't know we have problems, but @mandi0101111 yeah his mom is crazy and scary so I can relate. I'll look into it for sure and talk to him about that.

yea and when it comes to mental health it could get pretty scary. @emilyyy96___

I'm sorry hun. do you think they would help just till you got on your feet

@mandi0101111, that's a really good idea. his mom has a lot of mental health issues so that may be what his problem is too. @firstbaby_girl ally family lives far away though, and they only call me like 2x a year. my dad only lives 12 miles from my house and has only seen me once in the last year and it was by accident cause we ran into eachother at the store. yeah, some family I have.

I think it sounds like he's up to something. wheather it's cheating lying or both. or he could need some mental health evaluation. my boyfriend and I went through this as well. he would set up passwords wouldn't tell me where he was going and constantly accuse me of cheating too the point he believe his crazy accusations. he slapped me too but it didn't stop there. it got worse where not only physically but emotionally damaged me. I was depressed and wanted to commit suicide. finally one day I call the police and the judge ordered him to get a mental health evaluation due to his accusations and turns out he had and anxiety disorder that was causing it. he started on medicine and now where fine. he never laid a hand on me again nor accuse me or even password locks. you should look into it. do something don't let this happen it could get dangerous. and its not healthily for your little girl your baby and you. I hope all works out for you.

try calling your family and talk to them. your babies don't need to be around your bf if he treats you like that hun.

@firstbaby_girl, I get $199 from the state but that's not enough for anything and it will drop lower once alex is off my case. and no, I don't really have friends all my family is 4+ hours away :( thanks hun

do you have any other family or friends that can help? can you try getting assistance from the state? you shouldn't be dealing with something like that when you have two babies. its too much stress. i pray for you mama that things get better.

@kay80, exactly. he swears he's not hiding anything but when we run into a girl from his work she's like " oh alex you never text me back " and so I asked him.and he said that he sent her a picture of her car because someone put a shopping cart behind it or something stupid like that but I go through his messages and the only ones there are mine. idk. he's just an asshole all the time. he's been jealous since day one since we got together but it didn't get out of hand till about 6 months ago cause for some reason everytime I get pregnant he just assumes it's not his baby although he's the only person I've ever had sex with and he says I'm the only one he's been with too. I kinda feel like hacking his phone somehow and being a sneaky bitch back just to see what he's hiding, but I don't want to stoop down to his level

@emilyyy96___, Being jelous sound like he is cheating. Most cheaters do get jelous and blame u of cheating so they wont get caught of their act. The fact that he deletes his textmessages and open new FB account says it all. Why the need to open an new account and blocking u? And the text deleting? What is he deleting and why suddenly? I really do hope everything works out for you. Men can be such assholes.

@juliagail09, yeah I've tried talking to him... he acts like nothing is wrong. kinda scares me how he is and my boyfriend says the same shit to me too! I don't know if he'll change. he says he's just stressed.... but idk

damn. 😞 i wish your mom would let you and your babies stay with her. i know how it is. when i was pregnant my mom kicked me and my bf out. and we lived with his mom. now we have our own place...we argue a lot....although he hasn't cheated this time around that i know of. but he likes too call me a bitch and tell me im fuckn stupid and stupid shit like it. its shitty being in a relationship like this....we got in a fight again tonight and now i wonder if i need to leave. so i kinda know how it is.

I'm scared for you to move into an apartment with him 😔 do you think he will change??? have you tired too talk tip him about things. honestly when guys cheat the only thing to do is leave.... but idk im sorry 😞

@juliagail09, she's kicking us out, we have an apartment, we're just waiting for them to get done with cleaning and fixing it. my mom said I can't stay here longer which sucks cause I have no where to go and no income at all. and with my daughters medical problems I can't put her into a day care. she knows how he is. he's just a fucking asshole. (sorry for the language) he's cheated before and acted very similar and that's what made me start thinking. it sucks. it really does :(

honestly it does sound like he very well could be. which sucks. i know how it is too live a real asshole! but i would never allow my bf to put his hands on me. girl that would have been the end for real. i know i don't know you personally but too me it seems like you deserve so much better then him. i wish i could give you the strength and courage to leave him. but i wsh i could do the same for myself i know how it's hard. but as for the cheating he more then likely is. I'm sorry. have you asked him? obviously hed lie. but girl monitoring your phone hell to the no. throw that shit at hus face and tell him to get the hell out. ive seen you say you live with your mom i think...have you told her whats going on? would she be supportive if you did seperate from him??

Okay so this is what I have so far: leaving multiple times a day to go to the "store", leaving to work and coming home from work hours early/late. deleting texts from his phone and changing passwords, making a second fb account and blocking me on it, then accused me of cheating on him and he put a parental monitoring thing on my phone so he can read my texts and blocked every guy from messaging me, he all of a sudden cleaned my car out and vaccumed it and cleaned out my trunk (which hasn't been done in over a year), then calling names, getting abusive (not to the point where it's like super bad but he slapped me and called me annoying), etc. I literally think he's cheating on me. I don't know why I stay with him at all. I feel like a dumb ass. @juliagail09

some guys are good at hiding it though....

did he come home late from work or leave earlier then nornal for work? is he suddenly going out more???

hiding things, lying, acting different. and to me cheating its hard because everyone had different views...but like if a guy is talking like as friends to a giro that's fine but there has to be boundaries...there's a difference brtween flirting and just talking...also kissing, sleeping around (obviously). uhm...yeahhh that's all i got...lol maybe if he's accusing you of cheating he could be feeling guilty about him cheating....