I'm really upset that my family seem to be mad at me for reconciling my marriage... my husband and I have a blended family. we separated because he thought I didn't like his kids based on their understanding of why they would get in trouble. My husband is the sweetest man besides that. The only reason for them being mad is that he was gone while I was pregnant. he didn't know I was pregnant when he left ... hell I didn't even know. sigh... but I'm choosing my marriage and family this time.