Does anyone wish they could return the mothers that raised them for an upgrade ? Talking to my mom gives me a headache. She is such a Downer & refuses to see the bigger picture....

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Does anyone wish they could return the mothers that raised them for an upgrade ? Talking to my mom gives me a headache. She is such a Downer & refuses to see the bigger picture. She is alwayyyyyys a victim 😫 grow up and own your ish! I just wish I had a more confident mom who could be my rock instead of me being hers 😞. Ugh blocked her on my phone until she can get her emotions together. In the mean time. I'm happy over here growing this beautiful baby & counting all my blessings. ☺️✌️

Sylvia · Answer

@Jessicagarmal, I'll send prayers for her soul too. Damn these women need boundaries !

Jessica · Answer

haha its sad im already anticipating the drama..  when i got my galbladder out she was talking to the doctors and nurses of what i needed.. like.. really? ican speak for myself thank you... she wanted them to take the iv out because she didnt think i ndeeded it.. amd got mad when i told them to leave it..

Sylvia · Answer

@jessicagarmal, jealousy is a sickness. Get well soon. Maybe I'll send her an edible arrangements so she can boohoo herself while she eats. Ugh. My family always comes first. She better be careful bc I might not let her see my son at all.

Jessica · Answer

it's almost like their jelous of the attention the baby and you are getting...  they act so childish when the attention is not on them to be the victim...  i said once my sister can be fairly dramatic and she said"well she got that from your aunt on your dads side (they are divorced).. i said that's dumb we don't see that side of the family that often and jenn (sis) had always been a bit dramatic.. (ahem like idk... her mom!?!) and she did... see.. she got it from your aunt... omg.. i even said.. no thats realy stupid....

rocket · Answer

lol

Sylvia · Answer

@rocket, I send prayers to my mother soul daily. That lady really drives me nuts

Sylvia · Answer

@jessicagarmal good for you girl !!!! I hope your birthing experience is beautiful and just how you imagined !

Sylvia · Answer

@jessicagarmal girl. We must have been separated at birth. Bc my crazy old lady had the nerve to yell at me and say " I find it inappropriate that you arnt having guests for two weeks after your baby is born " - 😳 old bat if you ever call my phone at 8 am talking some crazy mess ever in my face again I'll cut you off. Be thankful you get to breathe the same oxygen as my newborn , after all the hell you've put my through. This is not 1678 ....ok. I've learned that bonding is essential. I don't want your crazy Cooties all on my beautiful baby boo boo kitty. So sit Down and pout somewhere else ! 😒 our moms are sadly the same !

Jessica · Answer

i told my doula that my mom is difficult and she said "dont wrry sweetie... i have hospital security on my side..lol"

Jessica · Answer

ARE WE SISTERS!?!?!? mom is identical... made my nieces birth completely about her and told my sister (who was still drugged up) that she didnt call her when the baby was born... woman the baby has been breathing air for 10min.. you could have gotten on a plane and gone.to the birth.but you didnt.. yet it was my sisters fault for not calling her when.she was born.. (tore muscle so was having to get that stiched up.. while my mom called and tried bitching at.my sister.. the lady will not be in my delivery room... she can look out on facebook lol... just me hubby doctors and doula...  i dont think i even want visitors for the first few hours... i want bonding time with me and my family...

rocket · Answer

My mom is the same.... she irritates me quickly.... I have to pray over my spirit cuz I don't want to disrespect her.

izzyheart · Answer

You can't have a 5 second conversation with her without her talking crazy and negative smh

Sylvia · Answer

@izzyheart, DAMN SHAME

Sylvia · Answer

@rosebud, I'm adopted as well. Both my adoptive parents drive me crazy. They are such broken people. 😫 so glad to have a family of my own. Just sad seeing your parents who should be "wiser and stronger " not be that at all. More like preschoolers that refuse to get it together !

izzyheart · Answer

I Blocked my mom also she to dang negative

Rosie Love Dodge · Answer

both my adopted parents are like that my biological mom is the best even though I've. never met her

Sylvia · Answer

@sking092192, smh. I figured I wasn't the only. Feels good to know , trippin mamas are all over the globe. Maybe they can make an app for them. 😒

missing69user · Answer

I understand how you feel completely. .

Ashley · Answer

Lol my mother actually had the nerve to tell me she'll be raising my son because as a new mother in not qualified to do so. Talk about letting mama bear out of the cage I about went ballistic I seriously thought I was the only one with mama problems

Sylvia · Answer

@palmerwifey, seriously. It must be in the water. My mom has a lot of nerve.... Trying to parent a parent NEVER WORKS ! I just wish these women would grow up & move on. Ughhhhhhh

Ashley · Answer

I'm not talking to my mother she's selfish and quite frankly my son is more mature than she is. She's been blocked off my phone too, these women need to grow up

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