This is my first pregnancy and I'm super excited but my mother-in-law wants to buy me used stuff. I…

Does she buy herself used stuff?

Yes! She's all about 2nd hand and NOTHING is wrong with that. I just think since its my first baby..part of the excitement is buying new stuff. Ya know? I feel like I sound so snobby. Not my intention at all!

You don't sound snobby. Tell her how you feel she may understand. 😊

To be honest I am going trough the same I don't want to be rude but I just accept it because I can not be bothered with all the drama .. at the same time that does not stop you from buying your own brand new stuff as I totally understand new baby so new stuff. But using your inlaws as spares can come in handy as long as it's in good condition and not old and trashy and super clean then girl save your self the drama just go with the flow what she gives.

there is nothing wrong with wanting new things! it's my first baby too and everyone kept offering me there cribs and dressers and I felt bad saying no and sounding ungrateful for it because I was so grateful to have so much help but I felt the same and wanted new things for my baby. it should be fun and exciting and new for you which some people forget!! it's not a bad thing and they should understand. @babynoon15

my mil and sil gave me gifts from the 99 cent store. I just said thank you. I doubt ill use any of it though