really need advice!!! so a little bit of tmi but I don't really have a support system so I need you mama's! Me and my boyfriend haven't had sex for almost 4 months and we have been arguing lately and it's his birthday I feel like it will bring us closer and happier But I'm scared it will hurt... does it hurt?
@babybumb19, he'll probably enjoy it lol!
Okay thank you for the tip lol I'm so nervous! but I'm surprising him! @emilyyy96___
it honestly feels better while pregnant lol. just use lots of lube cause you get dry easily.
It just depends on your body, honestly. I never got crampy afterwards until I got further along. But some people do. If it's uncomfortable just stop and don't do it. That's really all you can do.
I'm 15 weeks and 3 days... I hope it's not uncomfortable I've heard of people getting cramps after and stuff like that. @may24th
It didn't hurt for me at 15 weeks. I'm 30 weeks now and it can be uncomfortable. Just depends on your body.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I got crampy after but it goes away fast. Didn't really hurt, just was sore after lol