It's not about winning or losing but if a fight breaks out even if your man wins physically what the cops finally arrive they taking everyone to jail, so your man gets a record behind an idiot who probably has nothing to lose, then you have more people getting involved some people don't fight fair, if the cops will be there in 30 your man should just be honking the horn for your friend to come sit in car and wait with him til cops get there. It's easy to react off emotions and not think about consequences. The guy who hit me was only 5 feet I had like 30 pounds on him he just happened to catch me off guard I was helpmg her put her stuff back in the house he was talking mess as was I and then bam he hit me in my mouth I could have called an army over there but it wouldn't solve anything. I don't think your man needs to "talk" to him , he has already proved he is not a logical person he hit a pregnant woman and refuses to leave her home yall should just wait for authorities and everyone remains safe and out of jail hopefully they put him in jail tho for hitting her if she's willing to press charges but if she's still sitting in the house with the man who hit her n refuses to leave I doubt she will press charges good luck hope everything works out for everyone

my man is known for not losing a fight to anyone, but he knows people and has backup waiting. she called the cops but they said they couldn't get anyone out there for 30 minutes @ginag918

Careful with that I went to help my friend whose abusive bf threw her stuff out of their apt and I ended up with 8 stitches in my mouth and she was upset with me because threatening to fight me because unlike her I pressed charges on him when he hit me. If she really wanted him to leave esp since he hit her she needs to call the cops and have him removed you sending your man to get in some biz that could get him hurt trust me I have a permanent scar to remind me to mind my business and if it's abusive then call the cops if they don't want to do that then they not really done