sorry to post something so graphic and terrible this is what he texted me today. ive been in a relationship for over 7 years hes the father to both of my sons and he left me 3 months ago when i found him cheating on me. ive been living a terrible nightmare i cant accept what hes done to us and i wont allow him to see our 4 year old until we go to court. am i in the wrong? am i doing this because im hurt or because hes a shitty dad?
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duh... do not listen... trust me. I was in your sons position as a kid. don't let him see His dad. look what he's saying he's gonna brain wash your kids mind about you. he's just pist he got caught. you are not doing the wrong thing. ugh people make me mad but I don't wanna get banned so I'll shut up.
i think he too it far....he shouldnt be so direspectful towards you. wether hes you childrens father or not....to me its not acceptable. if you guys are co parenting then he shouldn't be so fucked up...idk both sides. but i agree save them. screen shot everything. protect your baby/babies. he does have a right to his kids unless he isn't a foot father but he should learn to respect you in the process.
although he seems like a pretty awful immature individual, the children are half of him and he does have a right to see them as long as he doesn't mean them any harm. as hard as it may be, you have to take ur feelings out of it. he has a right to see his children, but i would also explain that he needs to at least respect u enough as the mother of his children not to call u out of ur name. Good luck
save these messages! if he's verbally abusive to you imagine what he'd say to your kids. this is so heartbreaking I'm sorry you have to go through this
Don't keep your son away unless he genuinely doesn't want to go. When my parents split up I clung to my mom because I hated to see her cry and I rarely ever wanted to go with my dad and she didn't make me. As for the massages, yes keep them all they will come in handy in court. Good luck I'm so sorry, my mother went through the same thing when I was about your sons age.
@mamabearcassie, you need to do what you thinks best for your son. your the mama follow your heart
im definetly taking all your opinions in. thanks girls. im really believing hes not the person i thought he was and i dont want my sons to ever grow up to be like that@butterflymommy @augustmom3 @naadira @firefly @18andpregnant
make sure you keep all the stuff he sends!,texts voice mails all of it. and show the court. screen shot all.of it and keep it in your phone
Just make sure you filed and save these things.
don't erase any of the messages he sends to u if you are going to court. it will help the judge determine his character outside of the courtroom. and please don't respond negatively in your reply.
honestly I don't think a woman should ever keep kids away from their dad because of things that are going on between the both of you. whether u realize it or not u are punishing your son for his father's fuk up.
if he's saying these things to you imagine what he's gonna say to your kids...
thank you @babynova12.5.14