today has been a low day .. me and so have been trying to get a car so i dont have to borrow my moms, and i only have 500 dollars to help get a car and he is being super picky about trying to get a car but he wont tell me how much hes going to help pay and my gpa found an old car that runs but since my so doesnt like that kind of car he is refusing to help me pay for it and says well at least i can get a car i want since i have more money... it just makes me wanna cry.. and he always say well baby is gunna be a daddys girl and is gunna hate you and she looks nothing like you she looks just like me and that's probably for the best...and he doesnt even help out with her i stay at home with her clean the house and cook all for him and i dont even get a thank you i just get bitched a if i forget to do something and i just had our daughter 2/18/15 and he thinks i should do everything and i should be having sex with him already .. ugh sorry i just needed to vent
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I have been there and I hate to see a lot of you mamas treated so bad. It makes my heart hurt for you because I have felt that pain. Noone deserves that. Hugs mama
I hate to tell you and I'm sure deep down you know but they won't ever change hun. I've been through it before and it was so many years wasted full of heartache. I finally wised up and walked away and I have been blessed with a wonderful husband, but it took me until I was in my 30s to find him. I know its hard though and love is so powerful at times that it consumes you. Only you can decide what you will take and put up with though. I hope things get better for you.
i ask myself the same question and i dont know why i put up with him , probably because i love his dumb ass and i just think hes gunna change ..
just gotta ask why you would let yourself be treated that way. don't allow any man you treat you like your garbage. know your self worth girl.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ok, im just going to put this out there. Don't act like you have never went through your man's phone, wallet or pockets. It may not be because you are suspicious, it could just be "oh, whats this?" It doesnt mean you don't trust him, you could just be curious.
#everyrelationshipisdifferent
is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
AM I THE ONLY ONE
Who feels like when I'm on the highway traveling and me and a car follow eachother for awhile, I feel like we are friends and when they exit I get sad?!? Because if I'm not the only one who feels like this then I have the BEST story of my life for you.
I’m honestly super embarrassed to ask for help but if you guys know where I can get some help with baby items like clothes & diapers car seat etc can y’all let me know. I just want to start getting something together just in case I have NOTHING for this baby. I’m a single mother at the moment due to my husband getting deported. I have $0 dollars so I can’t afford anything. If you know any places here in Houston tx let me know that you.
I have to agree with @junebaby, I have been in the same situation. They do not change. Only gets worse. Gotta do what's best for you and your baby. I hope things turn around for you..