Ladies i need your help. Ok so as my pregnancy has progressed me and my fiance are trying to work…
Ladies i need your help. Ok so as my pregnancy has progressed me and my fiance are trying to work things out however i was honest with him because im a blunt kind of person i keep it honest and i don't bs anyone so i told him because your mother has been such a jerk towards for years now for now reason i can think of other then the fact that im not white she claims she has no problem with me and it has nothing to do with me not being white but i sense she s lying so i said to him since she so nasty towards me i don't want her around our baby i don't trust her so he gets upset . Momma s and mommies to be am i wrong for this?
lee0924·
Мама сына-младенца
No,though that's grandma you know what's best for your child ,the baby don't need that negativity around him/her,plus I personally don't trust people that don't like me
Brittany·
If she acts nasty towards you then why wouldn't she act nasty towards your baby because he or she is not white. I don't think your wrong at all I would do the same if I were in that situation. you go girl!
Amy·
В ожидании первенца
I have a friend who is kinda in the same situation. He's a white guy & he had a child wit a black female. His mom doesn't like the fact that he did & she doesn't want to have anything to do wit the child. I say go wit your instincts girlie.. You just never know.. That baby didn't do nothing wrong to her but she still treats her like trash & that's her grandchild. smh
missing53user·
you are not wrong what so ever! it upsets me that people still have the nerve to be racist. smh😬
J·
Мама подростка
@firsttimemomma, @squizzy843, @brose18, and @lee0924, thanks guys my fiance was starting to make me feel like i was wrong for keeping our baby away from her but seeing all of you comments lets me know im making the right choice. I wish things were different for my baby s sake but i protect my baby from any and everyone she s just too negative since being pregnant and ive been with him for 3 yrs she was always funny but when she found out we were engaged and later pregnant she got worse and ive never given his mother not ever any reason to be nasty towards me or dislike me so thanks for all your responses!
Mylina·
Мама дочки-младенца
Your not wrong at all. In fact I feel like he should tell his mom to respect you since you are having his baby and y'all are engaged
J·
Мама подростка
@firsttimemomma , and its sad me and him dont even look at each other as black and white or a interracial couple until someone says it but we just look at each other as a man and a woman that really love each other and drives each other nuts..lol
J·
Мама подростка
@lee_nuhh o he has they have aruged for years about it so she ll be fake with me when we come around and when we leave she ll say crap behind my back to his step dad and his step dad doesnt agree with it so he ll call my fiance up and tell him everything she says
missing53user·
thats exactly how it should he in EVERYBODYS eyes ! im sorry his mom doesnt open up her eyes and realize that!. i hate when people try to pull out the color card. Like please we are ALL HUMAM. color does not make you any better
Mylina·
Мама дочки-младенца
That's crazy. She needs to grow up. Plus that's rude.
J·
Мама подростка
@lee_nuhh i agree
J·
Мама подростка
@firsttimemomma , I 100% agree .
Jacinda ·
girl do as you see fit. I'm going to be the same way towards my husband s mother and my parents of they don't get their shit togther.
Mylina·
Мама дочки-младенца
I hope everything goes well though
J·
Мама подростка
@lee_nuhh. i hope it gets better too
Brittany·
Your welcome! I just hope your situation gets better girl and your boyfriend to understand where you are coming from. @pregolove2014