I waited until I was 6 weeks pp and me and my husband had sex and it felt like rape. it hurt so bad and we've tried since then and it still hurts like hell.

Aw dang:/ I would say try to stimulate yourself before hand. Have him get you in the mood and see if you can relax. If not you may have to wait a few more weeks

@lee_nuhh, I've tried all that and I've already had my postpartum appointment and the doc basically blew it off but that was 2 1/2 weeks ago. I can't even enjoy sex and its killing me

When I first tried it hurt a little. But if you relax and relax all your muscles it might not hurt but if it still does try lube if that still doesn't work I would wait until your postpartum appointment

@krb0911, it's like in the back that hurts not the sides where I got my stitches

are you using lube ? My doctor said you may need more now because your body may not produce enough now