so if i hve proof that he has bren threating me and i fear for my life cuz who knows what he cn…
so if i hve proof that he has bren threating me and i fear for my life cuz who knows what he cn do....so if i tell a lawyer and show the lawyer the text he has been sending me cn i get full custody of my baby even of the baby is not born....he threatens to come to my moms house and find me and do idk wat....nd i told him to lets go to court instead...he has anger issues as well so i cn ask to have him checked and if he visits the baby once he is born he has to be acompanoed by a police officer or some type of government person...he says he will take away my child and just cuz i didnt want to put his name and cuz i didnt want to agree on the things he says...he has the nerve to tell me am his woman nd may i mention he has a gf already...like wtf dude am not ur property really
brandi_22·
I don't think you can use text message in court... because technically "anyone" could have sent them that's how they will look at it in court might need a different proof
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like wat other proof @brandi_22
brandi_22·
umm I don't know exactly but I know my cousin went to court for custody battle thinking he could use text message but they said no...
brandi_22·
maybe family coming forward and backing up what you say!
lena2315·
I went through the same thing with my 3 older children's father next time he sends a threatening text call the cops and make a report have the cops look at the text print the text out go to court and get a restraining order against him with the restraining order he could only Vist the children on weekends with supervision it sounds like a lot but it's all worth it at the end @joana
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yea ik but am scared he could find me and make a big drama he even said it himself he isnt scarednof going to jail @lena2315
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@brandi_22, ok then ama see wat i do
Brandi·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
you need to file a police report. text won't hold up in court
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ok do i hve to go directly into a police station or cn i call i never done this before and am about to break out crying @junebaby
lena2315·
girl do it I was the same way too I was pregnant and I was holding off on calling the cops until he showed up at my apt and sent me pictures saying he was at my house he even sent a pic of my bedroom window I was so scared trust me after I got the restraining order I feel safe now and stress free dont feel sorry for him if you do. you need to worry about you and your babys safety
lena2315·
@joana,
Brandi·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
you can call or go up there.
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i dont feel sorry the only person i feel sorry for is his child that was born lile today but other then that i dont care about him @lena2315
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ok @junebaby ama go there personally then
lena2315·
Then I would definitely get the restraining order against him.@joana,
Chelsea Scheuermann·
@joana, save the messages if ur fear for safety you can get full custody.
Chelsea Scheuermann·
my mother got custody due to the text messages and emails
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ok i saved them ama go tomorrow and see how things go...even of i dont know where he lives its still ok...ik his number and name
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@elliot.s,
Chelsea Scheuermann·
@joana, save all communications that threaten or show anger towards you. That's a huge deal
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ok i have the texts ama save them up@elliot.s