Is anyone else really scared or freaked out about labor? Idk what's more scary. The pain or my bf and my mom seeing me spread eagle with a baby coming out of me. I worry about it all the time and the closer it gets the more anxiety I feel about the whole thing
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@Kay80, are they waiting to see if you need a c section or are they gonna let you try naturally?
I am freaking out😁. I had my first c-section cuz of complications. I dont know get if I have to have normal birth or c-section so I guess thats why Im freaking out. And if its normal labot theres no way Im gonna let my hubby watch down there😂. Dont want him to get traumatized from it, I want a normal sex life after. I heard that it can kill the sex life once they see when babe comes out.
@a_renee9, loll I want my man to look so he can see the pain I went thru for him! But I Dno about my mom... Lol so awkwardddd
everyone should watch Ina May Gaskin on TED Talks
Lol I want to get it right away too but my doc said it'll take atleast in hour because they have to do tests and make sure it's safe etc. I dno how women do it without any pain medsx hugeeeee props to them
@delilahsmommy2015, I didn't even think of that! Good thing they only give us ice chips for awhile
@a_renee9, lol I told my man to not look too but I swear he would deliver the child if they let him lol
Omg I can't even look at those videos haha.. Ima just freak out @mmmirage and I told my man not to even look down there lol.. He does not need to see any person coming out of me ha @mmora
@mmmirage, I am getting the epidural asap!! I want to be so medicated that I can't feel my toes 😂😂 I respect the women who go without pain meds idk how they do it
@delilahsmommy2015, yup and then if we poo during delivery I can't imagine our men wanting to be intimate for a loooooong time lol the whole process is just so messy. And at the same time you are getting the most amazing little person that you grew inside you when it's all finished. So many mixed emotions!
@mmora, lol those YouTube videos got to me too. I'm so scared of the pain and healing process. Even with meds, it just looks like unbearable pain!
Lmaoo I just want him here... I can skip the pain part.. It's scary just thinking about it.. Everyone's just looking down there too ehhhh @mmora
@delilahsmommy2015, yeah like being so exposed and everyone focused right on your privates during a very intimate point in your life. And it doesn't look flattering at that time!!
@a_renee9, girl me too. It's supposed to be the best day of your life. But the baby is the only part im looking forward to!!
I think about it all the time!! I'm excited but I'm so nervous about it 😳
@steph__x0x0, so it doesn't make you feel better knowing what to expect? Oh Man I was hoping it gets easier after the first lol
So glad I'm not the only one! @mmmirage I wish I thought of labor as beautiful like some ladies but I just don't know what to expect. I watched some YouTube videos and they didn't make me feel any better about it!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
6 more days and i find out who’s inside my belly !
💝 or 💙 .
So I just found out that my husband is sleeping with my sister and they are making fun of me.
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
@mmora, yeah. Last ultrasound was at week 21 and they couldnt say but did tell me if I want the c-section could have it. But they might be able see in week 34. So Im waiting to see what they say. I just dont want a c-section if its not necassary...