Is anyone else really scared or freaked out about labor? Idk what's more scary. The pain or my bf…
Is anyone else really scared or freaked out about labor? Idk what's more scary. The pain or my bf and my mom seeing me spread eagle with a baby coming out of me. I worry about it all the time and the closer it gets the more anxiety I feel about the whole thing
Mmmirage·
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You literally took the words right outta my mouth!
mmora·
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So glad I'm not the only one! @mmmirage I wish I thought of labor as beautiful like some ladies but I just don't know what to expect. I watched some YouTube videos and they didn't make me feel any better about it!
mmora·
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@steph__x0x0, so it doesn't make you feel better knowing what to expect? Oh Man I was hoping it gets easier after the first lol
Ashley Jackson·
I think about it all the time!! I'm excited but I'm so nervous about it 😳
mmora·
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@a_renee9, girl me too. It's supposed to be the best day of your life. But the baby is the only part im looking forward to!!
mmora·
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@delilahsmommy2015, yeah like being so exposed and everyone focused right on your privates during a very intimate point in your life. And it doesn't look flattering at that time!!
Ashley Jackson·
Lmaoo I just want him here... I can skip the pain part.. It's scary just thinking about it.. Everyone's just looking down there too ehhhh @mmora
Mmmirage·
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@mmora, lol those YouTube videos got to me too. I'm so scared of the pain and healing process. Even with meds, it just looks like unbearable pain!
mmora·
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@a_renee9, it's like a show they all gotta see haha😂😂😂
mmora·
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@delilahsmommy2015, yup and then if we poo during delivery I can't imagine our men wanting to be intimate for a loooooong time lol the whole process is just so messy. And at the same time you are getting the most amazing little person that you grew inside you when it's all finished. So many mixed emotions!
mmora·
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@mmmirage, I am getting the epidural asap!! I want to be so medicated that I can't feel my toes 😂😂 I respect the women who go without pain meds idk how they do it
Ashley Jackson·
Omg I can't even look at those videos haha.. Ima just freak out @mmmirage and I told my man not to even look down there lol.. He does not need to see any person coming out of me ha @mmora
mmora·
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@a_renee9, lol I told my man to not look too but I swear he would deliver the child if they let him lol
mmora·
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@delilahsmommy2015, I didn't even think of that! Good thing they only give us ice chips for awhile
Mmmirage·
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Lol I want to get it right away too but my doc said it'll take atleast in hour because they have to do tests and make sure it's safe etc. I dno how women do it without any pain medsx hugeeeee props to them
Jennifer Strong·
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everyone should watch Ina May Gaskin on TED Talks
mmora·
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Can I YouTube it? @jstrong12712
Jennifer Strong·
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yup @mmora that's where I watched it
Mmmirage·
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@a_renee9, loll I want my man to look so he can see the pain I went thru for him! But I Dno about my mom... Lol so awkwardddd
Kay80·
Мама сына (8 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
I am freaking out😁. I had my first c-section cuz of complications. I dont know get if I have to have normal birth or c-section so I guess thats why Im freaking out. And if its normal labot theres no way Im gonna let my hubby watch down there😂. Dont want him to get traumatized from it, I want a normal sex life after. I heard that it can kill the sex life once they see when babe comes out.
mmora·
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@Kay80, are they waiting to see if you need a c section or are they gonna let you try naturally?
Kay80·
Мама сына (8 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
@mmora, yeah. Last ultrasound was at week 21 and they couldnt say but did tell me if I want the c-section could have it. But they might be able see in week 34. So Im waiting to see what they say. I just dont want a c-section if its not necassary...