So this isn't pregnancy related but I always throw hints to my man about a ring/ceremony and he always says I already have something plan but I'm not gonna tell you.you have to be surprise.. Blah blah when I bring it up its like he doesn't wanna talk about it or I feel like he'll say all this positive things like you're my wife to avoid the conversation but how much longer am I gonna have to wait to actually get a ring.. I'm not trying to force anything on him but I'm not trying to wait forever😒 Idk I had to vent
I hate when they get you all worked up and excited like that and nothing. Ugh!
patience is NOT key lol .... I know someone been with they man 8yrs.. she been waiting && waiting for a Ring && she in her 30s.. no kids && wants a family... some men get too comfortable. they feel like you doing everything for them without the ring so why get married...
he doesn't do anything to help me. I feel so neglected. I cook, clean, work, & take care of our son all by myself. all he does is go to work & comes home to play video games all night. & on his days off he sits in front of that tv for 16 hours. he's already been on it for 12. I'm so tired of begging him to spend time so I've just stopped asking.
I'm in the same boat. but the way my boyfriend is acting now I don't even know if I wanna stay.
Yeah that's how I am..my due date is coming up and I.m sure a proposal with a nice ring is the last thing on his mind so I'm just like you and I don't say much. I kinda just go with it. It's just in the back of my head and even more when he talks about it! @delilahsmommy2015
I need of what you mean girl! Hopefully he can make something happen for you sooner than later @babyjordan
I know:/ we already have 3 kids...I want to get marry with him but if he don't want to I can't force him u know!!!
@a_renee9
I swear I don't understand guys at all. He'll say something and I'm like I'm the only one in this house who doesn't have your last name.. And he just tells me hush like it's nothing.. Sometimes he'll bring it up and talk about when it should be and who he would want.. I'm there like are you even gonna propose @delilahsmommy2015 @babyjordan five years I don't know if I could wait that long
@delilahsmommy2015 I understand completely its my relationship too it makes me sad sometimes too because I mean if I'm so good enough to have his child and be apart of his family why not give me a ring? idkk I don't think I will ever understand
I've been waiting for 5 yrs!!it really sucks!!I know how u feel;(
I just want him to know what he wants and make it happen already.. Damn girl 3 years do you ever bring it up sometimes @mommieslilprincess13
I've been waiting for 3 years I know how that feels and it sucks
We've know each other for five years been together going on two years..and I don't bring it up everyday like it's very rare that I do because I don't want that pressure and I want him to do it only if that's what he wants.. But I get the patience thing I'm not trying to be that girl.. @jsyrong12712
how long have you been together? maybe he's just getting tired of it being brought up a lot.
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
some girls should shut the hell up .. they always say if you don't have something nice to say then don't say it ! I hate judgmental people with closed minded views .
Good morning ladies. Sorry I been ignoring yall but I have been so miserable the past days I'M STILL PREGNANT my contractions would be strong for hours and it looked like I was gonna have a baby then everything just stopped so I got sent home. they said I have to wait till my appointment Wednesday so I can talk to my doctor about the next step. I HATE THIS 😢😢😩

Ladies I'm getting so confused my doctors says I'm having a girl .... But everybody else saying it looks like a boy so I'm wondering 😪 it your having a girl would it look like this ?
I'm convinced I'm going to go into labour at any minute.....I'm having contraction but they're stopping and starting. Yesterday i was having contractions all morning then by the time I got to triage to be monitored they stopped. Now this morning I was sat having breakfast with my son and they started again. But more intense and longer lasting this time. My question is do I phone triage now or do I just wait to see what happens. I feel like I'm wasting their time always ringing etc
Yeah I know plenty of great ales who've been with their man for a long time and they are still waiting.. I heard that most men do get comfortable and if you're doing wifey things and being wifey..why do they need a title @sexii_diiva and girl maybe you should slow down on doing so much so he can get the hint before even getting marriage sounds like he needs to change drastically @iloveyou