So I was googling something on my husbands phone today and I saw his recent search history it just popped up, and he was looking up porn. Am I crazy for getting upset with him over it?? I mean I'm 30 weeks pregnant I know I don't look hot, but I try to make an effort to have sex with him but he doesn't want to! I'm upset cuz he's getting off to all these random girls on the Internet. :( I don't feel good enough.
That's exactly how I feel! Like I wasn't about to go spider monkey crazy bitch on him I just wanted to talk to him because yes it hurts why does he have to get off the the sight of other girls yuck lol ugh men!!!! They are such weird creatures lol @mommieslilprincess13 @18andpregnant
well its good you talked about it.
when I walked in on my man, I wasn't rude or anything. all I said was okayyy and walked upstairs. and he knew he messed up. I told him it truly hurt my feelings. like bad. I wasn't mad, or angry, I was hurt. only bc I could never get off on another man, so I don't understand how he could another woman. he knows he messed he and he said he felt like he cheated in me. he hasn't done it sence...and like I said this happen on thanksgiving and I still get sad when I talk about it. like right now ha I'm all down now):
@musiowskij I feel it will always be in the back of your mind stuff like that is hard to get over but I'm glad you got some lol
So to end the fight we talked. And ended up having some good sex lmao so I'm not as upset anymore but it's still in the back of my mind how much it did upset me. @mommieslilprincess13 @18andpregnant
exactly how I feel!,I have no girl friends, and I don't talk to any of my family. so I have you lady's and my man
@musiowskij I understand that I did that and it was the worst mistake ever
Thank you mamas seriously you guys make me feel better just having you here to talk to ❤️ I love you all for this! I just can't talk to like my personal family and close friends because they'll just look at him differently and I don't want that. @18andpregnant @mommieslilprincess13 @firsttimemom
@musiowskij good and your welcome don't ever put your self down because of him don't ever let him have that power over you your a strong women I mean you would have to be your creating and having a child a thing he will never understand and have the opportunity to do your an amazing human because God made you to be
girl I understand where your coming from. and it makes you feel like crap, especially if you have confidence issues. if you wanna talk about it with out other peoples opinions comment on one of my old posts. I got you girl
Thank you @mommieslilprincess13 I'm gonna attempt to talk to him again.
I probably wouldn't have that big of an issue with it if he didn't try to hide it, make it a big deal and if he would have sex with me when I wanted to! I asked if he was afraid to poke the baby he said no it's not that it's just I've been so tired.
@musiowskij don't do that to yourself trying to make it that something is wrong with you there is nothing wrong with you its him he shouldn't be doing that if he has a special women in his life that's carrying his child thats messed up
I agree with you it makes a girlfriend feel like total crap. I recently talked to my cousin about this and she basically said the same thing.
I personally don't have a problem with porn as long as he gives it when I want it, doesn't try to hide the porn, and it isn't people we know or talk to. I know being pregnant can make a female feel insecure but I trust him and honestly I've watched porn too, lol
I tried talking to him nicely about it then he flipped out on me saying how's it any different than watching sex scenes in movies. I agree does he want someone that has fake ass boobs and looks like she starves herself to look hot? I get it I'm not spontaneous like I used to be but I'm still willing to have sex with him! It's not about rather him watching porn than going out and fucking some hoe, it just makes me feel horrible about myself he tells me it's an addiction but I've asked him in the past several times to please stop watching it now that I'm pregnant it's worse. @mommieslilprincess13 @californiahaley @stlgrl22 @18andpregnant
@stlgrl22, agreed. plus yeah most guys feel like they'll poke the baby so they don't wanna have sex.
I'd rather my bf watch porn and Jack off than have him out cheating on me and screwing some random hoe..
I don't like porn cause it makes me feel like my husband doesn't want me he wants some spray tanned, blonde hair extensioned, boob job, liposuctioned Barbie and if that's what my husband wants to screw he shouldn't have married me. I don't like it. I don't want him watching it. Nope nope nope
I just hate it so much! He says how it's an addiction and it can't go away, but I'm right here! I'm willing to have sex but he doesn't want to, he says I'm still beautiful and sexy to him but why won't he have sex. Pisses me off!!
I feel ya girl): I walked in on NY man once. some girls say its not a big deal but I understand.. its hard, I walked in on him in thanksgiving and I'm still upset about it.
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@musiowskij very wired creatures