Am I wrong? He refuses to quit, says he'll do it when it's right for him. And I told him he's not allowed around Matthew…

@lizzilarson, my husband I told him no cigs. due to the child. and he went to e-cigs vapors. its less expensive and also it doesn't hurt the child ( asked doctors and mothers who switched that smoked.) the smoke that comes out is just water and juice. no nicotine to harm the child. I'd say let him go to that they have some that have the same as a normal CIG without all the chemicals.

exactly! smoking is nasty. my parents have always smoked so I've always been exposed to secondhand smoke and I hate it.I have a cough year round because of it.

@may24th, I'm really glad to know I'm not overreacting. I just want my son to be healthy and safe.

Nope! I told my parents they have to change clothes and wash their faces and hands and arms before holding my son.

We've had this same conversation. It's a huge uphill battle!

Do what you think is best! You know what's the best for your baby and yourself. Let him cry like a little baby and act childish. It just shows he's not ready for this baby and his priorities are messed up! Maybe you need to give him a big reality check. That's what I had to do with my boyfriend and he has stepped up completely.

@valerie_jean, It's just ridiculous. He ignores me for the longest time, then decides to message me, and thinks he has any say right now. He cheated on me, breaks all his promises, and ignores me. Then he has money to pay for his phone, Amazon prime and cigarettes but hasn't bought anything for his son. He also said he didn't want to argue over something so miniscule. It's the health of my baby, that's not miniscule.

Nope not wrong at all! Told my boyfriend the same thing! He understands though.