On Tuesday I told my MIL that my husband and I don't want to have anybody at our homebirth besides our midwife and doula. Well, Gary and I went over there yesterday to show her my ultrasound photos in person and she made a comment about how she was upset that she doesn't get to be at the birth and I just ignored her. Then right before I was going to leave she pulled me aside and told me how upset she was that she doesn't get to be at the birth and how all her co-workers got to see their grandbabies be born. She went on to say she wasn't trying to be manipulative or change my mind but honestly, I don't believe it.