Ladies I can't take it anymore!
Me and my husband have been together for almost 5 years. first two years were great but ever since then it's been very rocky and we've been on and off. I have 2 beautiful girls with him and a son on the way. ladies I'm tired, bitchy, aggravated.
I cannot speak with my husband the way I would like to (normal daily convo) every time I try to talk with him about the kids he ignores me and walks away. then he wonders why I get so mad a frustrated and start yelling. NOBODY and I mean NOBODY likes being ignored especially by their husband.
my girls have a lot of energy and they get into and onto everything. when I discipline them and tell them no, he apparently doesn't agree with me. but what he doesn't understand and I've tried telling him multiple times, is they cannot do whatever they want. they need structure and stability and I am the only one putting forth that effort. I'm tired of always being the bitch mom towards my girls but honestly ladies if I don't show them right from wrong, he isn't gonna so there for they're gonna think anything and everything is okay.
I really am losing all my hoping of having a family with him. he does not act like a father should nor does he try. all he wants to do is put on this goody daddy scene and make mommy look bad. I want to tell him so bad that if he can't start acting like a father then I'm gonna have to leave and raise them by myself without him.
sorry so long of a story but I had to let it out somewhere! ladies please give me advice.
Комментарии
Yep when u barely say anything & continue with your day... They will get the message especially if u start singing certain songs like beyonce " me myself & I" mary j " not gon cry" or Jennifer Hudson " where u at?" Lol when I sing those my bf automatically get his shit together. Tell me how it goes.
@mommyofaking, I'm gonna try that. see how it works. I'm sure eventually he will get the picture..
I always do the silent treatment.... Men always seem worry when we stop talking.
@steph__x0x0, I've tried and I cannot any longer because I just frustrate myself to no end.
Tell him about it... He wont ignore a divorce ... Its hard raising kids n especially wen u not alone but feel lik u are ... Jus tell him he gotta do better or u n the kids are gone
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Omg ladies my 3 year old just asked me if i have sex with her daddy!!! I dodged that question so fast but ladies really my daughter is growing up too fast and too smart for her own good. I dont even know what to tell her if she ask again I thought i had a little longer before she asked that. I texted my husband telling him and he just laughed. He is no help.
I'm gonna def try that!