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Angela Lynn Paz-Recinos
mamaof4_2015
Angela Lynn Paz-Recinos
Ladies I can't take it anymore!
Me and my husband have been together for almost 5 years. first two years were great but ever since then it's been very rocky and we've been on and off. I have 2 beautiful girls with him and a son on the way. ladies I'm tired, bitchy, aggravated.
I cannot speak with my husband the way I would like to (normal daily convo) every time I try to talk with him about the kids he ignores me and walks away. then he wonders why I get so mad a frustrated and start yelling. NOBODY and I mean NOBODY likes being ignored especially by their husband.
my girls have a lot of energy and they get into and onto everything. when I discipline them and tell them no, he apparently doesn't agree with me. but what he doesn't understand and I've tried telling him multiple times, is they cannot do whatever they want. they need structure and stability and I am the only one putting forth that effort. I'm tired of always being the bitch mom towards my girls but honestly ladies if I don't show them right from wrong, he isn't gonna so there for they're gonna think anything and everything is okay.
I really am losing all my hoping of having a family with him. he does not act like a father should nor does he try. all he wants to do is put on this goody daddy scene and make mommy look bad. I want to tell him so bad that if he can't start acting like a father then I'm gonna have to leave and raise them by myself without him.
sorry so long of a story but I had to let it out somewhere! ladies please give me advice.
31.01.2015
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mamaof4_2015
I'm gonna def try that!
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missing70user
missing70user·Мама сына (10 лет)
Yep when u barely say anything & continue with your day... They will get the message especially if u start singing certain songs like beyonce " me myself & I" mary j " not gon cry" or Jennifer Hudson " where u at?" Lol when I sing those my bf automatically get his shit together. Tell me how it goes.
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mamaof4_2015
@mommyofaking, I'm gonna try that. see how it works. I'm sure eventually he will get the picture..
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missing70user
missing70user·Мама сына (10 лет)
I always do the silent treatment.... Men always seem worry when we stop talking.
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mamaof4_2015
@steph__x0x0, I've tried and I cannot any longer because I just frustrate myself to no end.
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indifferent
Tell him about it... He wont ignore a divorce ... Its hard raising kids n especially wen u not alone but feel lik u are ... Jus tell him he gotta do better or u n the kids are gone
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