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rant sorry: so my bf mom hates me for stupid stupid reasons. when she found out i was prego she at first didnt want me…

rant sorry:

so my bf mom hates me for stupid stupid reasons. when she found out i was prego she at first didnt want me to keep my baby, then when she started to see my bf (her son) was happy about our baby she started to come around. is she saw me or heard me on the phone with him she would yell n call me names. well he kinda stood up for me n told her she needs to be nice to me, she then stopped talking to him. well they have been back on good terms now n she knows where we live is shitty so today she asked my bf if we would wanna rent out her basement. yes thats nice n all, but shes only doing it to get her son back home n she even made a comment about how she cant wait to raise another baby. i know if we went shed take over being "mommy" n ill be left with her while he is at work. he sounds like he is really wanting to go n is even thinking about adding her to our phone plan. i feel if he decides to go i will have to leave him bc im not having someone take over my child nor put myself in an uncomfortable place. urg!!

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emilyyy96___

Emily

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)

I went through almost the same thing when I was pregnant with paisley. I'm sorry :( mother in laws suck most of the time :(

2615mommi2b

kati

yes n my bf doesnt see that shes just making it seem like im welcomed there n stuff. its her way of manipulating him into moving there. ugh @emilyyy96___

mrssupernerd

Patty Marcum

Went through something similar with my husband's mom. She wanted us to move to her home town, and then she began harassing me because my dumbass husband can't do anything without telling his mommy, including our arguments. Long story short, I'm in the process of divorce right now. Our marriage fell apart I would guess 80% because of his mother's involvement. I've been with someone new for a while now, and my dear husband is sitting in prison because he can't go a week without me without committing a felony. I bet mommy is proud. 😒

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