Talked my mom today and there's something I need to let out. After everything that happened with…
Talked my mom today and there's something I need to let out. After everything that happened with baby girl i blame myself because I should still be pregnant right now. I feel like it's my fault this happened. My body couldn't take the stress of the pregnancy. I blame myself because if I coulda just kept her in my body 4 more weeks she could still be here. I just don't understand how she could go from being perfect to getting an infection that took her life. I just don't get it. 😭😭💔
missing11user·
В ожидании первенца
it's not your fault. things happen. you couldn't control what happened. don't blame yourself girl.
Marguerite Smith·
definitely not your fault. you couldn't avoid it. Don't think that way girly. I'm so sorry for your loss. it could happen to any of us
Brandi·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
its not your fault at all. please don't blame yourself. it could happen to anyone. there was nothing you could have done. your baby girl knew how much you loved her.
missing42user·
You can't blame yourself that's not fair. I'm not a very religious person and i don't know if you are but i do believe that God makes things happen for a reason.. Your daughter knew that her mother and father loved her very much and she will always and forever be in your hearts. She is your angel.
missing6user·
Мама двоих (1 год, 15 лет), ждёт третьего
I don't know your pain baby girl, but God only knows why he does things. It was out of your control. Don't blame yourself. You are a mommy of an angel that will forever watch over you. You will be in my prayers. Pray for strength and peace with in yourself. @liinababess_
LaJuan✌🏾️✊🏾🌻·
В ожидании первенца
It's not your fault please don't think that. I'm praying for you honey she will always be your angel and she will always be in your heart.
Haley·
Мама сына-младенца
It's not your fault love. Things happen and you can't control it.
🌺Sabrina🌺·
@liinababess_, baby please don't fault yourself, darling sometimes in life with time and unforseen occurrences things happened that are beyond our control and no matter what we try to do we just can't make them right or better. I will be 33 yrs old on my due date and never dreamed of having another baby me and my husband were done, until I had a surgery and was told I could try to get pregnant and have my last baby, which may not happen or I could just get put through medical menopause. This decision had been by far the hatred decision me and my husband ever had to make, I've been pregnant 4 times, 1 miscarry, 1 preemie@29 weeks, 1 full term baby that it took a miracle to keep her in and now this pregnancy, I have medical issues where getting pregnant could possibly cost me my life or the life of my baby, but i unselfishly gave my husband what he asked for knowing the possible outcomes, and trust me the road had not been easy, with all of that being said babe, your not at fault everything that we go through in life there is a reasons behind it, sometimes we may never find out why, and that's just the way life is. Take your time and grieve and keep close the memories you did share with that precious beautiful lil girl, and if you ever feel down just know that you have over 19,000, preggie mamas here in your corner 😘
samantha·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)
my mom lost my sister 3 days after she had her and when she was laying her in her casket she got given this paper an im going to find to and write to you what it said it might make you feel a lil better because this really made me think about it @liinababess_
iloveyou·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm so sorry for your loss, losing a child has got to be one of the hardest things anyone can go through, especially a mother. but blaming yourself isn't gonna do you any good. I can see how you would blame yourself, because if I was in your shoes I'd do the same thing but, sweetheart, you did everything you could & so did the doctor's. It was just Gods plan to have her with him. She will forever be your angel baby, watching over you & your husband. She knew how much you loved her, she felt it every day while you were pregnant with her & even after. I know it's hard right now but it'll get easier in time. The hurt will never completely go away but it'll ease up. again, I am so so sorry. My heart breaks for you.
Kayla·
Мама дочки-младенца
first i would like to say im deeply sorry for your loss only you understand the hurt and pain you have inside of you and we can only imagine ... i understand some of your hurt and pain i just went through kind of the same thing i delivered at 7 months and the constant heart breaks and watching your child suffer is beyond painful i will keep you and your family in my prayers god has great things planned for you