Am I stupid for thinking he would actually change after the baby was here? I think I was. It's 6 in the morning and you…
Am I stupid for thinking he would actually change after the baby was here? I think I was. It's 6 in the morning and you don't want to get up when your baby is crying? Too damn bad, I've been doing it by myself for 3 days while he slept all night. Selfish people never really change I guess, so what do I do? I don't know anymore, I hoped things would be different and now that I can see no change is being made I'm stuck with a man who constantly disappoints me, I can't even hug, kiss or have sex with him, I just don't want to.
kerri·
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Exactly, what do we do? I've been with him for 5 years and throughout all that time his complete selfishness was always a problem, but I believe you should always put your child's needs before yours, especially when they are this small and need constant attention. My life had to change because of this I have to make sacrifices and he's not willing to do the same which makes us butt heads :( @boots
Sommer·
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@kerrigage, I'm in the same boat... hoping my man changes after the baby's here. But if he's gonna sit on his ass and leave his clothes all over the floor for my pregnant ass to bend over and pick up, not help around the house at all and leave it all for me to clean, and not even take the dog out for me so I can relax since I'm carrying his child.... why would things change afterwards??? But like you, I'm hoping! Our men need a wake up call- what do we do?