@mommybump3, thank you for that!! this really tore me up yesterday.. I seriously appreciate the support from everyone!

mixed babies are cute:) my babies are half black, i wouldnt trade them for anything! if anyone has a problem with it well first off idc second they can leave because obviously they have issues even if they are family. "family" does not deny a family member no matter what and if any of my family did deny my kids i would disown their sorry ass!! dont let anyone tell you, you having a mixed baby is wrong its not! its 2015 people need to grow up!

@tavarusmommy21, I sure hope so.. Yesterday was a roller coaster for me.. all day at school I was happy && excited, I worked felt a little sick towards the end of shift.. got home, completely lost it.. started eating apple fritter bites, && balled like a baby to my fiancé which he ended up crying...its was so blah.. then time to sleep hit, I couldn't get comfortable at all.. it was horrible.

@meagan_button, you're welcome! & yeah you'll have those days but it should get better (:

I'm white (technically irish & italian) lol My skin gets pretty tan but i have red hair haha and my babys dad is mexican. soooo idk what our lil girls gonna look like haha hopefully not all dark mexican w red hair but we will see hahah :o

@tavarusmommy21, thank you so much.. this is so helpful... I just feel like such a mess lately

oh that's good then. at least you will he considered an adult (: I felt that way as well even though my boyfriend was always there for me to talk to or see when i needed him. I think in time that will definitely change and you won't feel alone emotionally anymore (:

yes I'll be 18 when the baby come... its just so scary.. like I have my fiancé but I feel so alone emotionally... it's strange @tavarusmommy21

@meagan_button, you're welcome and yeah it was hard telling my parents and with school. I was kinda embarrassed for being so young. I just finished my sophomore year in high school when I finally told my family. its way more difficult now though taking care of him and having school. especially since my boyfriend doesn't ever help me..but thankfully his mom takes the baby to spend time with him 2 nights a week so I can do hw and finally get sleep. my mom helps as much as she can too..or there's no way I could finish school. I know how you feel..I felt that way too. I'm sure you will be a great mom! there's nothing more special than our babies ❤ I'm 17 now too. will you be 18 before your baby comes? & don't ever let your age make you feel like you can't be a good mom. its the love and attention you give your baby..some people might try to bring you down but you keep your head up!! you can do it and be an amazing mom 👣❤

I'm white and my boyfriend is black. yes we may get looks from people but they don't matter. all that matters is the little family you're creating :) my parents and his mom are fine with this fact as they are now embracing the fact of a grandchild

@tavarusmommy21, thank you!! Being 16 was it hard? I'm 17 && scared to death of it all one minute, but the rest of the time I'm confident in my capabilities of being an amazing mother..

yes my baby is definitely mixed. I am black and white. my boyfriend is Chinese Filipino and Mexican. my family really didn't care..they were just like wth is he going to look like lol!! (x but his household didn't mind my race but his family outside of it was upset at first that I'm not Chinese..it really hurt my feelings honestly but they all love our son & about your age..I was 16..so i was worried about disappointment from my family as well but they ended up being really understanding. its 2015..pretty much everyone is mixed with something. the black and white mixture is common now (: I hope all goes well for you!

@sexii_diiva,

it really is... I'm personally a daddy's girl.. But when he said that, it literally crushed me.. The second the pregnancy came up, this fear hit me in the gut of telling my father that his grand children will be mixed.. I'm scared he won't acknowledge my children or relationship due to race..

smh.... really sad

@sexii_diiva, my mother && her side does. We tried to sit down && tell my father but he stopped us && said he refuses to acknowledge us as a couple due to race..

does your family know you're engaged?

@amberlee_94, thank you so much for that!!

@sking0921, @californiahaley @mrscalderon Hopefully everyone in our families are accepting.. my father is gonna be iffy.. but I'm his only daughter so I hope he can over look it.. you are all so right.. I just need to ignore the hate, && love my fiancé && our baby unconditionally

If they can't*

The way I see it is if people are going to bully your kid there is a million things they will make up to bully them for. It could be their skin. Hair. Clothes. Shoes. Grades. Name. Ect. Bullies will be bullies no matter what.

I'm going through the same thing girl.. my man is black and my son is obviously mixed.. my family hates it.. so I simply cut them off!! its sad that is is 2015 and people still can't look past it!! but in the end you need to focus on YOUR family.. not what your relatives think and feel.. If they can love and support you for who you are and be happy for you.. then BYE. that's the attitude you have to have.. or they will continue to treat you like crap and be disrespectful.. my family wants to say they don't agree with me dating a black man but love my son no matter what.. If they are going to be racist against my man.. but not my son, how does that make sense...?? I gave them plenty of chances to stop treating us the way they do and they failed every single time so they are out of our lives.. it's sad but you know what.. I don't want my son growing up around fake people.. they accept him but not his daddy..? How the hell does that make sense.. they say me and my son can attend family events but my man can't come.. well we are a family and it's either all of us or none of us. I do not want my son to ever feel like he is less because of his race.. it really pisses me off that this is even still a issue this day an age.. but it is.. it breaks my heart that my family won't accept my adorable little mixed race family.. but it's their loss. you gotta do what you gotta do girl. keep your head up!!

My baby will be mixed. I always been in a interracial relationship (always black men). My dad never liked it. I'm half Puerto Rican and they rather me be with "my own kind" but seriously the older I got the more our relationship got better (parents divorced so I didn't grow up with my dad) he accepted me more and he loves my boyfriend and doesn't make any hate comments or anything.

and my fiance*

@meagan_button, that's the best thing to do! between myself andy fiance, Alaura is a mutt we have so much mixed in us! she's just white, I got picked on for years for my skin color! I'm to pale to be considered normal. my nickname in high school was dry wall or tooth paste. ass holes are going to be ass holes whether your black, white, pink, or blue! right @californiahaley

my fiance is Mexican & I'm Belizean. neither of our families have a problem luckily

I get that it's hurtful but girl Stan your ground you're going to be a mom. The thing is there will always be racists out there and even if someone says they aren't racists they are if they think a mix family is wrong. If someone gives you shit tell them to go F themselves because it's your life and you're going to do what's best for your baby.

@sking0921, I totally get that.. all I know is one way or another me && my Fiancé are going to forever love our baby. No matter what.

@californiahaley, I know it shouldn't matter but sometimes its hurtful/maddening when people sit there && tell you how you're in the wrong for dating another race.. or how my child is a horrible curse to the world because she/he is mixed..

my family gives me crap about being pregnant, my babies white. my family is just full of jerk offs, I seem to find that someone is always going to find something negative to say.. I just ignore it, I'm happy to have this baby and if they don't like it well, that's why they don't get to be around! just ignore the meanness and love your baby:)

Who cares? I understand race is something everyone looks at and sees but I keep seeing people point of that their baby is mixed race. And I just think who care they are a little baby, a new person race doesn't matter. And honestly it's 2015 I dare anyone to find 10 people in the USA that are purely one race. It's going to be impossible. You can't tell but I'm everything from Native American to Irish