how do u guys feel about the baby daddy or significant other working from 7am to 1 am.. 5days a week?.. I'm not sure how I feel I don't want to be stuck alone with a newborn no sleep or breaks.. but if i have to I have to.. :( any advice? its a new job and he likes it there so far but I'm not crazy about the hours.. u know? any advice? maybe?
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@kimmygarrett85, he's a maintenance mechanic.. for this one. there hiring like 30 people in Texas and flordia
Ya that's understandable. and dam he makes great money. good for him. @elliot.s
@kimmygarrett85, yeah he's making 25 a hour for the job.. but still I want him around or at least enough to give me a break when I need one.
@delilahsmommy2015, no with this job we will have to move towns and states maybe.. I'll be 30-40 mins out to my dads and my mothers. ( there separated) so I'll have to make friends quick.. in the new town or baby sitters
I understand where you are coming from...but we need our husband's to provide for us. my hubby works 6 days a week 10 hour shifts. my 2 daughters are at school, and their after school program from 7:30-4:00. But like my grandma says if he ain't working I'll be complaining about him and $$ if he's working I want him home...grandma say I can't always have it my way. it's all worth it in the end. at least you have a provider and your baby and you are lucky for that. 😊 just spend the time you have with him and make it count.
@delilahsmommy2015, I hope so.. I'd be fine if its like 5-4pm at night to 1 but all day with a new born.. it going to be difficult :( but momma gotta do what she has to.
@sexii_diiva, I really don't want to end up like my mother.. who never was there id hate to have my child not see his father that means a lot to me :(
I wouldn't be able to handle that... that means I never see you 😕
@therealmerilyn, that's also what I'm worried about.. that if he doesn't get enough I'm sure his PTSD will kick in like last time.. I get to hear his hours and more info on wensday but he says he's going to work from like 7am to 1am.. I hope not :(
@delilahsmommy2015, I agree why I would basically be only one doing things. I doubt he will come home and help he will come home and sleep I'm sure
@therealmerilyn, yes I guess but he's gone at 7 am to 1 am the next morning.. and work about an hour away.. it sucks and I know I'll have to do it on my own raising him until he gets promoted or finds a new one.. I just hope they let him come home at 4-5 like most places.. he works second shift as a mechanic
I don't think 1am is too bad my sister has to desk with the same thing. Her baby is a daddies girl and sometimes don't call asleep until he's home... I think its better to have him at 1am rather than him being gone till 6am ya know ?
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That's pretty ridiculous hours wise, i would never want that for myself or my boyfriend, its not worth it to me at all.