how do u guys feel about the baby daddy or significant other working from 7am to 1 am.. 5days a…

I don't think 1am is too bad my sister has to desk with the same thing. Her baby is a daddies girl and sometimes don't call asleep until he's home... I think its better to have him at 1am rather than him being gone till 6am ya know ?

I'm sorrybfor all those typos lol

@therealmerilyn, yes I guess but he's gone at 7 am to 1 am the next morning.. and work about an hour away.. it sucks and I know I'll have to do it on my own raising him until he gets promoted or finds a new one.. I just hope they let him come home at 4-5 like most places.. he works second shift as a mechanic

@delilahsmommy2015, I agree why I would basically be only one doing things. I doubt he will come home and help he will come home and sleep I'm sure

omg how does he sleep?

he will want to get another job to spend time with y'all

@therealmerilyn, that's also what I'm worried about.. that if he doesn't get enough I'm sure his PTSD will kick in like last time.. I get to hear his hours and more info on wensday but he says he's going to work from like 7am to 1am.. I hope not :(

I wouldn't be able to handle that... that means I never see you 😕

@sexii_diiva, I really don't want to end up like my mother.. who never was there id hate to have my child not see his father that means a lot to me :(

@delilahsmommy2015, I hope so.. I'd be fine if its like 5-4pm at night to 1 but all day with a new born.. it going to be difficult :( but momma gotta do what she has to.

I understand where you are coming from...but we need our husband's to provide for us. my hubby works 6 days a week 10 hour shifts. my 2 daughters are at school, and their after school program from 7:30-4:00. But like my grandma says if he ain't working I'll be complaining about him and $$ if he's working I want him home...grandma say I can't always have it my way. it's all worth it in the end. at least you have a provider and your baby and you are lucky for that. 😊 just spend the time you have with him and make it count.

@delilahsmommy2015, no with this job we will have to move towns and states maybe.. I'll be 30-40 mins out to my dads and my mothers. ( there separated) so I'll have to make friends quick.. in the new town or baby sitters

@kimmygarrett85, yeah he's making 25 a hour for the job.. but still I want him around or at least enough to give me a break when I need one.

Ya that's understandable. and dam he makes great money. good for him. @elliot.s

@kimmygarrett85, he's a maintenance mechanic.. for this one. there hiring like 30 people in Texas and flordia

That's pretty ridiculous hours wise, i would never want that for myself or my boyfriend, its not worth it to me at all.