might not have a baby shower.....bills are way mpre important...being grown up sucks... i need a day…

All my family's in a dif state and I didn't have any friends who offered to give me a baby shower so if have to pay outa pocket for one. Just wasn't meant to have one because things we didn't plan for kept happening

So had no money to have one

Do a "baby sprinkle" and make it a potluck. You can do plates and drinks and maybe the cake (sheet cakes are easy at home) so you can still have the free gifts (that help with$) and it only cost maybe $20 out of pocket for you. Facebook invites are free!

Oh make sure to specify if you need moe clothes or diapers and just a fyi newborns are usually in newborn size for a couple weeks if you're lucky ask for size 1 or 2 you'll be in those longer.

thats what i was thinking about doing like having a little get together instead of a shower