so stressful when the father of my child isnt doing anything but sitting on the couch all day, wont…

sounds like you need to put your boots on.

I wen through that while I was pregnancy by my first have birth to her 2weeks later left him. Some guys just don't care. I never thought I'll have a happy family or meet someone who will love me & my daughter and I did. After my child turning a year we met my hunny now who's a hard working man and will do anything for his family. Moral of the story Every guy isn't the same and there are MAN OUT HERE WHO WILL WORK AND PROVIDE LOVE AND PLENTY OTHER THINGS FOR CHILDREN and accept someone else's child as well. I wen through what u did and now I'm happy hun. Don't lose hope in happiness. Beat wishes

Best wishes **

@dannettx3, thank you!