for a while i was feeling like i was too young to be becoming a mom and im 21 but i got over that lol im mature, he has a great father, living on my own and doing A ok lol 👌

@sexii_diiva iktr, my man been ready to settle down for real but I feel like I'm too young to be married he's already 35. so he's ready lbs. IDK I just know we gone be together.

@jujusmother lol yea no one wants to go thru it alone... I always hear && see so many stories && I see the struggle && didn't want that for myself.. My life is far from perfect but I have someone by my side so I feel we can get thru anything together

yeah, I agree but I can't talk cause I wanted a baby my entire life almost but I never tried, I couldn't anyways my mom put my ass on birth control at 14. lbs. but with this baby I wasnt even thinking about a baby. I been with my child's father since I was seventeen I'm bout to be 20 in a couple months. and quite frankly my man and me was on the verge of breaking up. Rs. but now that I'm pregnant we ain't doing no breaking up.

I meant that If they are 16 and trying to have a baby, then that alone shows they aren't ready for one.

I never said that you did.

@linzka2 I never stated that young moms are bad moms

Yeah, if I had married my high school sweetheart, I doubt we'd still be together now. He's changed a lot since high school from what I've seen

age doesn't tell you if you are going to be a good mom or not. it's a immature decision.

its their personal choice

I was with the same guy since 14 and we broke up at 20... Best decision I ever made. I would still be struggling if I had stayed with him.

@rnb_mommy_2_be still so young... but at least your married.. I mean it works for some...majority It doesn't according to statistics.. but I wish you guys the best

@laura_love yep... I know when I was 18 I knew I was gonna marry my high school sweetheart. lol then a few years later I see how some of these other men treat me && I was like bye bye high school sweetheart 😂😂😂 .. plus I'm a curious.. I'm only 25 but glad I'm married now because I went on my share of dates && men...now I can say I been there done that. so I'll be faithful

I am pregnant & married at 17. but I've also been with the same guy since I was 11 ❤

You find out who your friends are too. Granted, I can't really speak cause I got pregnant at 19. Wasn't trying though. So my life is definitely not what I thought it'd be at this point

Right. College showed me the world lol

@laura_love yes so young.. && to me even getting married so young... people just rush.. after you graduate from high school you start finding yourself. you really change!

@jellybeansmommie girl foreal when I was 18 the 1st thing I did was get ON birth control.... like wtf I didn't want them problems!! @tb2881 yes but things happen && I understand. but when you deliberately try it just saddens me. you have your whole life ahead of you @bree31 yes I've even seen 16 yrs olds say they are trying... like you probably have no finances coming in.. still living with parents... this isn't a like a dog you can lock up in the cage && go about your business this is a human that you want! it's not easy!!!

I've heard of 16 year olds trying to get pregnant 😣 I understand that people can mature fast, but that's still way too young, in my opinion.

its likes fashion statement to them, to walk around sporting a baby bump smh crazy. I had my first daughter at 20, but thank god by then I had already graduated cosmetology school and was working in a salon fulltime, some of these girls haven't even graduated high school yet and have no job, its sad!! your only goal can't be to get pregnant smh

It's one thing to try, and another to "end up " pregnant. I know I didn't try but looking back I didn't take the proper precautions either.

Oh nooo. lol I was trying to get my life at 18 😂😂