I hate when other ppl criticize about the smallest things ....my older cousin asks all the Time why do you buy Aiden So many Pairs of shoes???? Why do you buy him Jordan's ?? If that was me I wouldn't waste my money!! I didn't do that for my kids cause I need to save my money ..... Now everyone in my family knows I'm not one to bite my tongue ... So I had to explain to Her The Major Differences between her and I !!! 1st things 1st I buy my son shoes clothes or what you have it for the simple fact I can I have a full Time job as does his father it's our prerogative at the end of the day I'm not asking you for money or taking the money out of your pocket to do so...2nd he wears Jordan's and Nikes and what ever brand of shoes I choose to buy him cause again that is my Business ....and I flat out told her don't compare our living situations because they are nothing the same I have 1 child you have 4 nothing against a woman with 4 children I have 1 baby daddy and you have multiple and you spent more time worried about them rather than your children if you didn't go clubbing all the time and you need to get your priorities together instead of worrying about Me And Mine then she goes to say I'm disrespectful 😫😫😫 Shut the hell up ... My Lil Rant Is Over
@mmmirage, they don't even look in her direction trust me
@krissy81814 yeah I'm not about that life. She should change after having a baby! She's not a person any one should take advice from lol
Right it's gotta be something but I'm the one who watches your kids free of charge when your too sick after you leave the club to watch them who do they begg to be with for the weekends and holidays right okay she keeps trying me but I can't cut her off for the sake of the love I have for her kids @bree31
girl I got a cousin just like her so I know what u going thru, I got so sick of her BS I finally just cut her completely outta my life. I got no time for it! its obviously jealousy, she needs to get over it!
@mmmirage, right!!!! I don't go clubbing I don't spend my money on alcohol or drugs all my money goes to bills and my family,,,she is the one in the club and partying 3nights a week your too old to be trying to live that life
@spud, @bree31 she does it constantly she just gets under my skin she never has anything positive to say when it comes to me and its annoying she talks about I was too young to have a baby but she was 15 when she got pregnant I'm out of high-school, and I'm out of college and have a full time dc government job like get real at my age you where nowhere near don't come for me if I didn't and for you
Yeah gurl u spend ur money how u want on your kids. Atleast it's going to them and not unnecessary places. Do what U want for UR baby! So annoying because I have people saying the same to me! Like umm MY baby! If I can afford it, I'll get my baby whatever I want.
Well deserved though. it sounds like she needed a dose of reality
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
Planning on another baby...?
So for my first time moms when do you plan on having your second child?
Take your freaking shoes off!!!!!!
Why do people think its ok to walk on someone else's light colored carpet with their shoes on, and then give you a death glare when you tell them to remove their shoes. It's my house, you want to walk around in it...you will do so without your shoes on! It's not that much to ask, and also doesn't require a whole bunch of attitude either.
How/why do you buy a car EVERY year with your tax refund?? I know people can spend their money how they want...no judgement, u can buy 1,000 packs of skittles...but I know 2 ppl who has bought a car EVERY tax season for the last 3 years!! Like stop buying buckets and spend a little more for a better car or put a down payment on one. I just think that's a waste of money. What's one big thing you're buying/doing if you get a refund 🤔 #PayingOffMyCC #DressersForTheKids
avoiding ridicule
Do you ladies think it's materialistic to buy your lo brand name clothes shoes etc so he won't be singled out in school?
Lollll