Can I ask everyone a question I'm pregnant 5 weeks n 4 days and I want My fiancé to move in with me because I'm scared and Ill and need him around, but He won't move in with me because his mum won't let him be here !! He's 18 and going to be a dad and he's scared to leave his mum he tells his mum everything I say and if we argue he crys to his mum.
He says I ain't got a job yet but that's not my point I just want him to be a man xand be here for me am I in the wrong ?
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I personally want him to be with me but it's his choice not forcing him ha n Rochelle if only my partner was like that xx bless
My boyfriend is 17 and moved from England to Scotland to be with me since we found out I was pregnant. We now have a 3 day old daughter :)
I ment whilst you were pregnant for a couple of nights. you'll need him thair 24/7 when baby's born
Because he is 18 and needs to Man Up anyway when the baby's born in not having him see his daughter for a few nights just because his mummy don't like it it's not fair if he's old enough to get me pregnant then he's old enough to move out and be a dad
why not just do it gradual get him to stay a couple of nights a week and let him decide Whare he wants to be. that way you and his mum both get what yous want xx
She said she don't want her baby leaving aka my fiancé
my honest opinion is that he should want to be around as much as possible to help u and ur baby he just needs a reality check that he can't always rely on his mum because in the long run it'd be unfair on her
get him to read up on it. Try make him understand just how scary it is. It's not just yoor well being when you feel sick, dizzy and horrible but also you worry if the baby's alive? is it ok? am I doing everything properly? its a lot of stress to go through and if he can't man up and help then I'd go to someone else for support because you will need it xx
That's what I thought .. This is all new to me and just wish he'd be here for me x
no if he's man enough to get you pregnant and is going to be a dad he should be man enough to stand by you and be thair when you need him and if you need him staying because you're scared so be it he should be looking after you. nothing to stop him from being at his mum's during the day and stay at night for comfort x
Talking as a mum of a 17 year old boy i know if my son found out his girlfriend was pregnant it would be a real shock to him. You have not been Pregnancy of that Longer . Give him time to get used to the news of the baby. try not to push him..good luck hun