I realized i have this problem of everytime i look in the mirror i measure myself up against other women or against what my husband might think about my body or looks. so it makes me feel bad about how i look. God said we are worthy to be loved and are loved by him as a woman don't count on a man to decide weather your worthy or pretty enough. God says he loves you. God tells us our identity as women- don't let a man or anyone else make you think your not valuable.