I had my first doctors appt since finding out about the losing of my mucus plug and dilation a few weeks ago. I was…

@nique5683, no problem, keep me posted and I pray that test comes back negative 😉

Lol I know being hospitalized will suck so if she puts me on bedrest then that's what has to happen. I'm definitely gonna allow help, just not much family here! I have a friend who says her and her husband would step up for us but I just don't wanna be a burden on her. Push comes to shove, I'll definitely let her if it can help me with my unborn son! I have my appt tomorrow, so I'll definitely give an update on the bedrest etc! Thank you for your story, it made my anxieties simmer down lol @mrssabby

@nique5683, my oldest is 12 and my baby is 8, my mil helped with taking them to school and pickups, but my husband did all the rest after he worked his two jobs, it was a struggle because I still tried to do things but it only hurt me more, so eventually I just gave in and sucked it up, I had food, water, cable a bedside commode, I think I was more lonely than anything, as far a a 4 yr old make lil snacks for a few days and get lunchables and stuff so the baby can reach in the fridge, juice boxes, cereal, kids finger foods, lots of crayons, books, and movies, with my 8yr old I was on bedrest from 13wks until I delivered and my oldest was 4, and that's what I had to do, where there's a will there's a way. Also don't turn down no help, even though people get annoying just let them help you, it's best for you and the baby, because if you can't do bedrest at home they will hospitalize you, and I hated that so I obeyed lol

Oh wow! How were you able to be on bed rest for that long? Especially because you have other kids.. You must have lots of help. I'm nervous to be on bed rest or hospitalized because I have a four year old. I'm married but my husband works nights and sleeps during the day. I don't have much help here!! I guess if there's a will there a way. I will try too do my best to follow doctors orders! I'm 32 1/2weeks, so praying for another 3 1/2!!! It's amazing how the doctors helped you not deliver another preterm baby! @mrssabby

@nique5683, okay so I have a 29 wk history my first baby was born at 29, the second I went in labor and they stopped it, thus go round I went in preterm labor at 28 wks and they put me in the hospital and stopped my labor, a week before this I went to the hospital because I was out shopping and my mucous plug was shedding, the lil intern said oh no it's fine well guess what I was in labor my doc was pissed I was placed on strict bed and pelvic rest from nov 13 until Monday I just got freed from bed jail Monday, but even while on bed rest I still went into preterm labor again at like 31 wks, and was in. The hospital again, it's been a tough road but both of my fFn tests were positive, but it was all worth it I will be 36 wks on Sunday and today at my doc appt, he said I'm thin, but no dilation and I may be overdue

okay @mrssabby

@nique5683, my phone is dead I just got home and I will post. Details

@mrssabby, so this is what you're going through as well?

Ahhh welcome to Sabbys world praying for ya

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Thank you @babyboolala

Praying with you boo! Hope it gets greater 😘😘