You know, everyone keeps asking why I want to go back to work so bad. well I love my girls to death and I want to be able to provide for them on my own. But another reason, because I need out of this house. I've never been one for just sitting around twiddling my thumbs. I need to go back to work so my mind stops wondering. When my mind wonders I get depression really bad, and with everything that has happened with my girls father and all I cry almost every day so going back to work would help ease my mind and give me something to put my energy towards. does that make sence to yall?
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I've just never been one to sit around for to long bc my mind goes insane. honestly working and just being active is how I've battled my depression instead of needing medication. but finding a new job is so hard! especially with 2 babies hahs @ginagina
It definitely makes sense to me. if being at work is what will work for you I say go for it.
I want to have a baby so bad and my boyfriend feels the same but says hes not financially ready...so does welfare have to be paid back?
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Trying to decide about going back to school is so hard. I'm not ready to leave Aubrey but I want to go so bad.
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Do not let anyone make you feel bad for making to provide for your family. If you feel like your getting depressed from sitting at home then go you for doing something about it not just letting it consume you.
My mom always says she liked working while we grow up. she had time to miss us and the time she spent with us was quilty time. she would run home hugs us and want to play. she said she never felt ugh I wish I didn't have to deal them.
Definitely do not feel bad :) Do what's best for you and your girls!