So frustrated today! my grandma is already packing up clothes my girls haven't even been able to wear yet bc they're to big for my cousin who just found out she's pregnant! ugh! like just STOP we don't even know if she's having a boy or a girl yet! and its not fair her packing up clothes that I BOUGHT for MY kids that they can't wear yet because they haven't grown into them! and her excuse is they have enough that they won't miss a few outfits! Stop damnit those are my kids clothes! when they out grow them if my cousin has a girl I'll give them to her! ugh but no when my grandma is around I'm not allowed to be a fucking mother to my children......I hate to say it but I'm so ready to get a job and finally get my own apartment so that I can be a mother to my girls....like I'm not even allowed to hold them when she's around because she keeps taking them from me! I appreciate the help I do but for the love of god let me be a mom! -rant over-
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I've started keeping their bigger clothes in my car to hide them! and as they grow I'll bring them in for them to wear them. But unfortunately until I get my new job and can afford rent I'll have to keep their new clothes hidden until they can wear them. @kaity0117 @elliot.s @mommyofaking
Your grandma is bullying you. And it's not okay. If you talk to her and she doesn't listen talk to your sister. Explain to her that you would love to give her baby things, but as your girls grow out of them and once she finds out what she's having!! I'm sorry but grandparent or not they can't disrespect you like you
Stand your ground! Seriously grandparent or not she's practically stealing from you! They don't even know if it's a girl and you daughters could wear those clothes and then you could choose yourself to give them to your sister when she needs it!!!
I would tell your sister that you sent giving any clothes and ur grandma is packing I would bring up the fight
I'm sorry this is happening to u. Maybe try hiding some of their clothes? It's not fair especially since u bought them but try & keep peace until you can move out on your own
My girls will only be 2 months old friday and my cousin isn't due til August. They're still in mostly newborn sizes and mt grandma is packing up their newborn and 0-3 month clothing. and it's pissing me off but it's apparent she doesn't care @mommyofaking
I totally agree with u.... My sister just found she prego & is callin dips on my son stuff who isn't even born. She too doesn't even know what's she having & it's frustrating when they just expect u to hand over your stuff... U should have a nice respectful convo with your grandma hopefully she will understand where your coming from.
sadly I have....but she ignores everything I say. her favorite grandchild is pregnant now so my kids are gonna get put to the side like I always was growing up....@elliot.s,
That's so frustrating... I'm sorry you have to deal with that. You should talk to your sister though let her know what's going on