i really need help here... i moved in with my parents to help with my younger brother because he had open chest surgery and i have 2 kids and im married .. so my dad ended up leaving and found his own apartment he couldnt deal with my mom anymore... i dont blame him no one can deal with her... but last night she came home as i was cooking and started a big argument about how i cant be in the kitchen when she is and why was my father in this house i need to tell him hes not aloud here.. anyways we got i to a big yelling match back and forth my dad was on the fone the wbole time after it calmed down. my dad called to check on me and said u cant be yelling and worryi g about her th ats not good for the baby i am 23 wekks pregnant and if ur dr found out about all the stress u have she will get on u about it... i dont wanna see the baby have problems because ur stressing ur mother too much.... he has a point but normally im up all night cuz the baby is kicking moving around or something but tonite i have not felt any movement at all..... im scared all the yelling i did could of hurt the baby some how... this is not normal for me not to feel baby moving... can someone help....
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girl it fine i like to be listener cause i know what it feels like to need to vent but i rasied my self as well but not for the same reason my dad was the ass hole left my mom when i was six she got two jobs to take care of me and my sister my sister was mean so i raised my self and had to learn how to defend my self ive always been a fire ball as my mom calls it but i was cooking on the stove and walking my self to school by the age of 7 the only deff between us is im this way because of my sisters and im the yongest my mom was the only thing that was good to me but she could just never be around so hang in there thing wont get easyer with her but think how great your future will be once your away from here and if you ever need to vent im hear to listen
yea that s how i get.... its been like that since i was very little i raised myself and my younger brothers n i still do.... she is 52 but thinks she 21 n thinks shes in college n can party drink do drugs whenever she wants n wont cook for her kids doesnt work goes to school for hair n wben she leaves in the mor i g she wont show up til 1 am that night and repeat again the next day.. i juat dont understand how someone at that age can neglect there kids for stupid atuff i am 23 mother of going to be three ill be damned if i got out more than 8 times to a clu. or bar since i had tbem and i like bei g home being a wife n mom... i just dont understand her then....@sammie_bell, sorry im venting alot
oh i understand i have 7 sisters we fight like cats and dogs and just the other day i told my sons cuzin girlfriend i was going to beat her up then i remembered im pregnant i was so mad i almost didnt care i told her if i can fall down a flight of stairs an be fine she couldnt do shit but ofcourse i walked away cause regardless im pregnant lol so it happens
ok thanx but she really brings out my badside n i forget im pregnant n just go off.. its like she hits that nerve.... @sammie_bell
your fine the baby is just staying calmed cause your so hipped up an the more you worrie about it the more you will stress but this is my second pregnacy and i know the baby doesnt always move and trust me im a yeller and i stess get mad freak out all that at this point my doctor has relized its just my personality
its more than hard she has always been like this if i ignore her she will come down to my room and bother me more... i just want these next 2 months to go buy fast because we are buying a house... i jave to bring my kids to school by 840 if i dont feel movement by then i will go after i drop them off...
Can you go to the hospital?? I would definitely go and get checked ASAP. Your dad is right, you shouldn't be stressing at all, I know it's hard sometimes but just let her talk herself away and do your best to ignore for now. What you feel, your baby feels :(
no problem