I feel like bae isn't giving his all...since I found out I was pregnant I stopped smoking weed cold turkey and I was a…

@mrs.aceves, yes exactly so thts y I was so disappointed in him and felt so let down..but everything will be ok..and I hate cigarettes with a passion so I don't kno the feeling when to fight tht urge but I've seen my family and him smoke them so much it's disgusting and it's like a craving yu can't break over night..it's terrible..only tobacco I've smoked was black and milds but I got over those quickly...I just stuck to weed..

yeah I agree he gave into that temptation too easy. same with us though, we get the urge to smoke but we know we cant because were pregnant so we have no other choice really. I think if he quit smoking cigarettes he can quit smoking weed. cigarettes were my weakness. seriously harder to quit smoking cigs then weed for me. so he obviously has a strong mindset because the urge to smoke a cigarette is real hard to ignore if you arent ready to quit.

@mrs.aceves, oh no sweetie it's no harm but it's something we talked about many times and he just did it cause he was feining for it-tht was nunin buh temptation from the devil and he fell for it-he's better than tht cause he's quit smoking plenty of times for months at a time even before I got pregnant thts how dedicated he was to not smoking..trust me I don't force him to do nunin he don wanna do-he's a grown man and he don't force me either..we talk out our problems..I only get tempted wen I'm upset or in my feelings cause I know me I won't ever get over my urge to smoke weed buh I can stop if it's really necessary n beneficial..but it will all wrk out for the better I can't stress or wrry about it..God will take care of our relationship and everything thts going on with him..

@angelicarobertmoya, 😊😊😊 thank you !! It will take time I'm not rushing him..

@msrshalee, yeah I know..but Gods in control of the situation..everything will be fine..taking it one day at a time with him..I'm going to be here no matter what for him..I just want the support from him the same way I support him..

I quit smoking too when I got pregnant but my husband still smokes. I dont see the harm in it. I changed because I wanted to but cant expect him to change it. I dont see a problem with it because I totally dont get tempted. I feel its all in your head. I was a true stoner myself. I smoked all day long for years but its all in your head. keep telling yourself that & tell him that too. if he wants to stop he will but forcing him to stop will only cause issues if he doesn't want to quit. hell start lying & sneaking around with it.

God will deal with it, he always does 😊 @amg2469

Amen, I'll be praying about it too, it might take time but he'll change @amg2469

It will work out babe everything takes TIME remember that, nothing happens over night you both are in my prayers trust I know what your going through been there @amg2469

@angelicarobertmoya, thank you sweetie..I know things will be better soon...I just don't understand why he gave in so easy but we will def talk about it and solve the problem before we fall asleep tonight..he can stop if he really wants to cause he did it before idk wats so different about this time..i will definitely pray about it cause I won't stress or worry..God got the situation in control!!

@msrshalee, thanks sweetie..I really do hope we do too-we have enough problems on our plate alrdy..

Hopefully ya work things out, and he stops smoking once and for all, just pray about it...

He seriously needs to change and stop smoking if you did why can't he? His having a child something that he needs to remember, I know it's not easy to stop smoking that quick but he can if he tries, making changes it's the best thing we can do specially if it's for the best of us, and our family and more now that his going to be a father, I used to smoke and my husband but as soon as we found out I was pregnant he stop for good I stop smoking way before I got pregnant, we just decide it that the life we were vas the smoking wasn't going to take us anywhere so we changed for the better, we gave our life to Jesus vas became Christians and I tell you that's the best decision we ever made for us and our kids, my husbabd was tempted to smoke all the time it wasn't easy for him because he smoked pretty much all of his life but he was strong about it and made a promise that he will never smoke again, that was 7 years ago he kept his promise and being clean for 7 years, so if my hubby did it just like many other people have your hubby can do it too you know?

ok I understand hope yall work it out @amg2469

@msrshalee,

He knows I'm upset about it..I've alrdy voiced my sided to him but he's at work now so I have to wait on a reply..we communicate well I just had to calm down and lose my attitude

@amg2469,

I was just like you smoked a lot and hubby did to. Maybe you should talk to him keep it 100 and tell him how you feel about it, that's what I did and he QUIT cold turkey. Every one is different but try telling him how you feel about it, it may work