how do you get past the feeling of a doctor looking at your vagina

just hink about ur baby...after a while u wont even care anymore..i know i dont. I just hate when they stick stuff up there uhhgh take me on a date first lol

try a female doctor?

yeah i tried today and got so scared I left the doctors room and this is my first time having someone look at it

I felt the same way so i switched to a female doctor i just feel like the only man that should be in that direction is my fiance that's it but that's just me

I feel the same way about my fiance but would a doctor I never saw before or talk to be less awkward then a doctor I known for a lomg time

can ur fiance be with you? i didnt have my first one until i was pregnant so i understand but it's just part of being a woman...gotta get ur cookie checked.

im different. all though i like the advice from the lady doctors because most have had a baby themselves i prefer a male doctor. i have had a male doc for all of my kids. but my doctor now when i cant see him i see the nurse and its just so normal now i could really care less if its a male or female lol

but you asked how do you get past the feeling of having a doctor check you? it becomes normal. once your doctor is checking you witch seriously only takes maybe 20sec unless they are doing the ultrasound with the prob. just dont think about having somone down there, look up at the ceiling and by the time your able to think about it they are done.

thanks hopefuly when I get checked ill be more calm

lol I have a women Dr so it makes it a lot easier @melissa18