Am I wrong or mean for not wanting my stepmom to come to my doctor appointments? or let her be in the room when Im giving birth? she keeps bugging me about it and I hate telling...

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Am I wrong or mean for not wanting my stepmom to come to my doctor appointments? or let her be in the room when Im giving birth? she keeps bugging me about it and I hate telling her no so im always trying to avoid the question.  I want my appointments and the giving birth part to be my husband and my thing ya know?

Macy · Answer

yea exactly! even tho my mother in law is a nurse.. she is still my mother in law. Plus my moms seen my vagina.. so like ya.. ha @sexii_diiva

Mrs.Pin to you 😉 · Answer

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Mrs.Pin to you 😉 · Answer

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Mrs.Pin to you 😉 · Answer

@macy2015 I wouldn't even want my step mom all in my vagina anyway lol.. I'm weird about that... I'm fine with my mom because she gave birth to me lol

Hannah Bruce · Answer

thank you :) @sexii_diiva  @macy2015

Macy · Answer

what @sexii_diiva said. Just make it about you three baby hubby and you. And if doesn't understand how you feel then too bad! Don't let her ruin this beautiful experience for you, If her feelings get her then that's on her nor you.

Mrs.Pin to you 😉 · Answer

yes... good idea

Hannah Bruce · Answer

@sexii_diiva,  I think im not going to let any family know im in labor ill just tell them when the babies is here and then they can come visit. @macy2015  I hate hurting her feelings in all ive just had enough so next time i see her ill talk with her about it and hopefully she understands.

Mrs.Pin to you 😉 · Answer

not rude at all.. I would just say that.  I just want my husband in the room for delivery but soon as he comes out you're more then welcomed to come in the room

Macy · Answer

Okay yea then I'd put your foot down, she needs to know her place with this whole thing. I sat down with my in laws and told them they could be involved, but what I say goes. Its my body, my experience, don't ruin it for me. Really just tell her that enough is enough. Gotta be firm to be kind.

Hannah Bruce · Answer

@macy2015,  my stepmom ha as been to one appointment with my husband and I and all she did was tell me not to giive my baby a pacifier and to change doctors bc she didnt like mine (I love my doctors) and she continued to ask about any and all personal problems if ive had any so far (I was changing when she was doing this my husband informed me) and she just tries to control every aspect of my pregnancy and baby. its frustrating.

Macy · Answer

my mother in law asked if she could be in the room, I told her no I want it to be my bf and sister only. She got hurt but understood I need to be 100% comfortable, but she did come to two doctor app. just bc I would of gone alone and she didn't want that.

babiinunez · Answer

thats how it should be. only you too. if she doesnt understand then keep being honest and telling her

Hannah Bruce · Answer

I just feel like its something for the parents of the baby to experience together @kaity0117  and I have tried telling her before and she just makes me feel bad for saying no or that I want it to be just me and my husband.  @babiinunez

Kaitlin · Answer

Just explain that to her. I don't want mine in there and I think that might be a fight with my boyfriend but I am just simply not calm around her and I don't want distractions in there.

babiinunez · Answer

no thats perfectly normal but just let her kno tho. that's something only you guys want

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