Ok i am a very open person, especially when I'm comfortable SO here it goes. I inspected myself down there (butt and vagina) and ik for sure I'm going to tare all the way thru! Very short amount of skin between each hole.

Can you wipe regularly if you've had stitches due to taring during delivery? When I was in the hospital I was told to just kinda dab it..but idk if that still applies now that I'm home.

Baby Dale arrived today @3:04 pm 6 pounds 9 ounces and 19 and three fourth inches

Was in labor for 10 hours but luckily didn't tare so no stitches for me! Woohoo! Dale is doing great with latching some what lol but ik not to get frustrated.. I love him so much! He's my absolute everything and I didn't think I could love a human being this much! Love u baby boy! I will always love u and protect u and maybe spoil u just a little lol 😂😂

Even with the infernal and 2nd degree tares peeing didn't really hurt. just walking and standing hurt ugh...

I allowed myself to be torn down & to also tare myself down for years in order to build someone else up who left me in the end. Be safe out there friends. 🫶🏾