Sometimes I don't even know what to do....it's so ridiculous....i am not a single mom...but I sure feel like one 100% of the time...no your right I don't work I don't make money I don't pay bills.....but I do clean when I can and cook as much as I can...I also take care of two kids that have two parents...so i do the best I can...it's very hard putting two kids to bed when your month old just wants momma to hold her instead of laying down alone and being good so she can put big brother to sleep...but that's where dad comes it right to help with one...but no...he just goes to the living room to sleep cause he has to wake up early for work...but that's what having kids does to you...you have to risk sleeping go to work a little tired..just to put your kids to sleep...you want me to get a job..but you barely watch the kids when we are home together you act like i take forever getting ready but really i throw my hair in a bun..and get two kids ready who cares if we are 3 minutes late somewhere we have 2 kids...you don't change diapers..you have zero patients whatsoever....it's crazy how parenting is so so different even when your raising the same kids I just get so so fustrated having to do most of it alone and it still never being enough...I'm sorry it's windy out side and your dad their grandpa won't watch the kids so you can run to the store for medicine or milk..so you have to take them out..not my fault....I'm realize me getting a job would help out so much..but what's the point if my kids aren't happy.....goodness rant over...#dadproblems

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I am so sick of...
people saying "enjoy your quiet time now", or "get your sleep while you can".
You can be racist towards the race of your friends.
You can be racist towards your own race.
You can be racist towards the race of your family.
You can be racist towards the race of your spouse.
You can be racist towards the race of your kids.
Your racism doesn't just stop being racism because 'X' is said race.
Racism is Racism.
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Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
There comes a point in life where you have to stand ur ground! For some this needs to happen more often then others. And in your case it needs to happen right now! You need to sit him down and let him know ur stressed to the max, what you expect, and what you no longer will accept! It's easy to forget respect and courtesy when you're upset so be sure to be humble but stern! You have to find that happy medium to get your point across! To obtain this goal I would suggest you start with prayer! Things just work each time you listen to God!! It can only go one of two ways. He will either listen and accept or he will choose to fight against you. Either way you made your point you can walk away peacefully. If he does not agree to help and do what he's supposed to do you then u need to adjust yourself to do it yourself like uve been doing with a good attitude. At the end of the day you have to make a decision to deal with it and complain or change your circumstances! I'm so praying with you baby girl! 😘😘😘