Omg! Every time I ask my son's father for help with the baby and I'm not talking about buying him anything, just be there to help me with him you know? My son literally has everything he needs. He's a very grumpy baby and he's constantly fussing. I'm just really tired, I feel completely drained. You know how my son's father responds with? He comes with that you don't let me see my son bullshit. Knowing damn well I've been asking for his help and there's always an excuse as to why he can't come be with his son! I'm just so tired of this! I just want to go cry in a corner somewhere.
Are there any mom's out there that feel like they are doing it on there own and the father is there under the same roof. ?????? Just asking cause I'm tired of feeling lost and lonely. I need help and love. Just like he needs
Paternity
I'm sure most of you know my story with the father of my son. We FINALLY did the DNA paternity test and results just came in! He is 99.999998% the father!! Dang it feels good to have hard proof. Tired of being made to look like I'm lying.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
being a single parent can be tough, and most men are not as considerate or responsible as others. we as women just have to be strong, go ourselves and our children. and if your son is constantly grumpy and fussy, you might want to talk to your Dr about it. my 1st child. was like that and I did sit in the corner quite a few times and just cried and come to find out she was fussy cuz she was gassy and having problems pooping. babies can't talk so that's their way of letting us know something is wrong.