Okay, so this may be long so bare with me if you have time. My boyfriend has another daughter, she is five in lives in…
Okay, so this may be long so bare with me if you have time.
My boyfriend has another daughter, she is five in lives in Alaska with her mom because things didn't work between them.
So for the past five years she's been a conniving little bitch.
If things don't go the way she wants them too or according to the way she had planned then my boyfriend becomes a sperm donar again and won't let him see pictures or anything of her.
So after five years this is the first Christmas she's actually let us send presents down and keep them.
She's sending pictures of his daughter and even let them talk on the phone in FIVE years.
So here is the problem it's been that long and she always has something planned so I'm not bowing down to her like the rest of his family.
She still loves my boyfriend and everyone knows it so therefore I have no trust for her.
They are friends on too many things for my liking, and on top of it all his family wants to buy his ticket along with theirs to go down for a visit next month.
Get this I'm not apart of the plan until I over hear things and then they involve me but I'm sorry y'all can pay for her and all three of her kids to come up here but I am due in three and a half months we have NO money and my boyfriend has a really shitty job so how tf do they expect all this to really go down.
If he goes without me he's single and can find another place to go. Or he and his ancy ass family can hold tight until my son is born and we all make a trip down after or pay for her to come up here.
Sorry this is sooo long I just had to get it down and vent but it's just complete bullshit. It's only been a few weeks after five years and they are already planning trips like wtf me and my man have been together four years and this is our first kid together and no NO ONE cares about that.
tattooedwho·
that shit wouldnt be happening and like you said, he woukd be single if it did. and even if i wasnt pregnant that shit wouldnt be happening.My husbands bm tried that u cant see ur kid shit but i shut that down and filed paperwork for him to have visitation with his kid, so now she legally has to let him have her every weekend. Cant he get legal visitation during the summer or something where he doesnt have to take a trip and be around her? i couldnt deal with that
megan·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (25 нед.)
@tattooedwho, yeah I've been trying to get this man to get his priorities straight for the longest to try and get custody of her over summer. He says though since his daughter doesn't really know him he's gana follow by baby mommas shit. The fuck , why ?? Cause obviously playing by her rules gets you to not see your child for years. He needs to start getting his shit together or nothing is gana go his way here soon.
tattooedwho·
yea i shut that shit down..i wasnt about to be living by her rules in MY damn house thats why i did the shit myself and made him sign it. Does he pay child support?
megan·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (25 нед.)
Yeah almost 200 a month, @tattooedwho. And I need to get the paper work and he's gana start his shit.
Lala·
Yeah that makes me upset! I'm going to pray before I answer you on this cuz I don't want to say the wrong thing boo! 😔
Courtney·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (23 нед.)
oh hell no girl. that would not be happening. right now you should be the focus. you and his son! if they can wait 3.5 months till he is born then fine. but from what I hear I wouldn't trust her at all abd I definitely wouldn't let him going down there by himself. no no no no nooooo.
megan·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (25 нед.)
@babyboolala, definetly good thing in this situation :) and @courtney_boyea exactly. His family thinks of his daughter we'll I think of the whole damn picture. And if he even tries to go down there yeah his daughter won't be the only one who he's not gana see cause I will move back to my moms in a heart beat. Learned that having plan b is always a option in my situations.