@18andpregnant haha oh stop!! Thanks!! Do u have instagram? Follow me! :) mmmirage

@nrdubrayxx, exactly what I mean. it just sucks

I feel like that too! I wasn't an insecure person before. I mean we all have our moments. But I learned to love myself. But once pregnancy. Wow, I've never thought I was so ugly & fat in my entire life

@mmmirage, and I tottaly just stalked your profile lol and your so gorgeous😍

Anytimeeee!

@mmmirage, omg thanks lady😘

Don't feel like that! You're super pretty! I feel bummy too sometimes but as soon as i give birth n heal up, I heard the weight melts off and marks even fade, even if they don't, who cares!! Atleast u have such a pretty face :) #youareblessed

I feel the same all the time.

@18andpregnant, your very pretty. And as chhaya said you show very much confidence in the pictures you post. But don't let it get to you those hormones are a b@#$% . Your glowing remember that, even though you don't feel it or see it with in you mamma ❤

I'm sorry ):

I wish I could help. Maybe he will get more sensitive the further you get. Maybe there's a male figure in his life you can have talk to him about it? @18andpregnant

@chhaya, done it😑 nothing.

You can try what I did, I just started crying after he made a little joke and he asked why I was crying and I told him everything he's joked about or said to me that's hurt my feelings and how I feel so gross and unattractive and blah blah and he felt guilty and has been more careful since.

Sometimes they just don't realize what we are going through and need us to show then how serious it is. @18andpregnant

@wondermom, well at least non of us are alone! thank you lady's. I guess I just needed to vent. @chhaya

I understand , confidence in a relationship is 50/50 some man aren't really helpful in giving us a boost to make us feel beautiful because they are that damn dry lol (sadly) ......But I must say, us females are also complicated lol....for example there's days I wake up and i find that everything fits me horrible and it makes me feel huge then the next day I might wake up , try on the same Damn outfit and feel sexy in it, lol smh we be on something else. HORMONES!!!! and chhaya is right, you are very pretty but I know that when insecurities get to us we stay stuck on it till we "feel pretty again", lol smh happens to me as well, sucks ass.

@chhaya, girl we are in the same exact boat😭

Anytime my bf and I are watching a movie and a stripper comes on or you see boob or a really attractive girl comes on, he will look at me as if he's waiting for me to get mad. Which makes me mad lol

@18andpregnant, I understand. I think a lot of it is hormones and just naturally what us females do. I had a breakdown to my bf on Christmas eve because over the past week he had told me just little things that shouldn't have bothered me but did, like I had just woken up and he said my breath stunk, I had just taken off my boots after wearing them all day and he said my feet stunk, little jokes about me getting 'fat' from him and his mom, comments about me having to 'dance' back into my jeans, him making a simple statement that Amy Lee of Evanscense has the sexiest singing voice he's heard, ect. Things never meant to hurt my feelings and I just completely broke down lol

@wondermom, I used to always do all that but got comfortable with my man...I want to be able.to feel pretty with out make up and nails ya know. bc when I do do that stuff my confedence sky rockets. but I wanna feel pretty without all that. @wondermom

Tell me about it, i get insecure as well once in a while but I try not to show it to him because at times man can take that to their advantage. what i try to do is always keep my nails and hair done and wear makeup, eyebrows done, shave my legs and coochie and clothes that make me feel slimmer, oh and i have huge boobs and when I don't wear bra i feel like I wish they were perkier and stuff and in order for me not to start feeling like that i always wear a bra ,i only take em off and let my tities rest to go to sleep lol everything I mentioned is definitely time consuming and being pregnant definitely doesn't help since we get lazy ect but as tired as i am I try and take the time to do it because feeling insecure is one of the worst feelings ever, I hate it .

@chhaya, thank you so much for saying all that. its just idk, I love taking pictures,when I feel pretty...but its rare that happens anymore. I hate bringing my self down but I can't help it sometimes. ya know? grr....and these hormones on top of it all just really screws me up!,and I hope so to, he just doesn't think about things. boys.

I've literally felt the exact same way.

I know it doesn't help much, if at all. But every time you post a picture you're glowing and you come off as very confident and confidence is beautiful. You're honestly a very beautiful girl, I know we tend to pick out the worst about ourselves and compare ourselves to others and all it does it hurt our self esteem. You wear pregnancy beautifully and the pictures you've posted of yourself pre-pregnancy you look beautiful as well! Please try not to let it get you down too much! I know its harder to do than to say. I'm sorry you feel that way and I really hope your man gets more sensitive to your feelings!