This is just something that's on my mind because of something I have seen somebody post on here . . . but if the father of your child is doing for y'alls kid I find no need for child support to even be a thought in my mind its just being money hungry I feel like a lot of people have kids for the benefits like child support, food stamps and medicaid and it does nothing but make me sick. Some people might not agree with me but it's my opinion and I'm sorry but I feel if you can't fiscally and emotionally support a child on your own with out anybody else's help; because its no telling if you or the father will stay together then you have no business having a kid I'm sorry but that's just me a lot of people may disagree and that's understandable but I've seen so many people abuse and take advantage of the system and the fathers of there children that's just how I look at things now.
you completely right and the way I look at it is if your in that situation your not only hurting yourself but worst an innocent child so you would think people would make smarter choices. If I new I couldn't support or even tell my child who their dad was I really don't think I would bring my child in the world knowing they would do nothing but suffer because of my choices I just feel its selfish @sexii_diiva
I agree with what you're saying but look like over half these pregnancies are a mistake... I've been on this app a few months now && I see more accidental pregnancies then planned pregnancies. Every baby is a blessing period && yes alot of people aren't even in the right mind frame either. && it's sad but people gonna keep having sex && keep having these unwanted babies... -& I get people make mistakes but to make mistakes over -& over again.. I actually know a few people that have kids back to back with different baby daddies && even sometimes don't know who the father is.... that's just sick but people just gonna keep doing it
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.

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Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
yes but having an abortion can mess you up physically && mentally.. either way their are always consequences to our actions