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This is just something that's on my mind because of something I have seen somebody post on here . . . but if the father…

This is just something that's on my mind because of something I have seen somebody post on here . . . but if the father of your child is doing for y'alls kid I find no need for child support to even be a thought in my mind its just being money hungry I feel like a lot of people have kids for the benefits like child support, food stamps and medicaid and it does nothing but make me sick. Some people might not agree with me but it's my opinion and I'm sorry but I feel if you can't fiscally and emotionally support a child on your own with out anybody else's help; because its no telling if you or the father will stay together then you have no business having a kid I'm sorry but that's just me a lot of people may disagree and that's understandable but I've seen so many people abuse and take advantage of the system and the fathers of there children that's just how I look at things now.

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sexii_diiva

Mrs.Pin to you 😉В ожидании первенца

yes but having an abortion can mess you up physically && mentally.. either way their are always consequences to our actions

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you completely right and the way I look at it is if your in that situation your not only hurting yourself but worst an innocent child so you would think people would make smarter choices. If I new I couldn't support or even tell my child who their dad was I really don't think I would bring my child in the world knowing they would do nothing but suffer because of my choices I just feel its selfish @sexii_diiva

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sexii_diiva

Mrs.Pin to you 😉В ожидании первенца

I agree with what you're saying but look like over half these pregnancies are a mistake... I've been on this app a few months now && I see more accidental pregnancies then planned pregnancies. Every baby is a blessing period && yes alot of people aren't even in the right mind frame either. && it's sad but people gonna keep having sex && keep having these unwanted babies... -& I get people make mistakes but to make mistakes over -& over again.. I actually know a few people that have kids back to back with different baby daddies && even sometimes don't know who the father is.... that's just sick but people just gonna keep doing it

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