Good morning lady's and merry Christmas Eve! Rant for this morning!
I will not let some one be in my sons life who will only be there when it's convenient for them... I had that with my dad as a child and I refuse to let my baby boy have s grandpa when his wife allows him to be! Nooooooo she may call the shots with him but not with my family!!! Ugh!! Sorry lady's I needed to let that out I'm so hurt and upset that my step mom is not letting my father be around me because my mother moved back to town.. And he's not allowed near my mom. Though they are about to share a grand kid what does that mean for the baby shower? At the hospital? At birthdays I think it's complete BS and my mom is trying to be an adult about it but no it's my dad's wife's wY or the highway well I'm hitting the road!
Exactly! Like I don't understand women like that. My step mom is almost 50, I am 22, why in the fuck do I care about your relationship with my dad? I have my own life to worry about. Its like they don't out grow that high school mentality. I'm too worried about my baby, pay bills, making dinner, and college to be concerned with my dads relationship status. Haha. @roxzana0819
Ya it's the same way she was all for me being pregnant and excited that my dad got his first grand son but as soon as my mom moved to town to be closer to me and my child she refused to talk to me and won't let my dad near me.. It's like no your here 100 and 10 % or not at all my little boy dosent deserve this! And I refuse to let him suffer because an insecure women can't grow up.
I can relate! My step mom turned my dad against me. She's mad because I'm having his first BLOOD grandchild, and she can't call the shots on visiting. I told my dad straight up, he can choose to be apart of my child's life, or not at all. But I get it, so take that highway, sometimes that's the only solution!
@iisavana, exactly I'm just over her and my dad has a choice and it better be quick cause he won't see my son if his wife gets to call the shots on when he can be a grandpa