All I can do is lay here and cry... I'm so done! I never expected for things to be this way. I…

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awww what's wrong 😩😕

rocky road with my boyfriend right now Idk anymore. I feel like he doesn't care about anyone but himself like he care more for himself then me or Aiden. I went to public aid office today to apply for cash assistance and because me and him live in same household they said we would be treated like a married couple and when I have the baby I have to add him to the case cuz they see it as a two parent home. he would still get his medical but not his own link card we would only have one and he was mad because he want his own but we agree everything anyway so what's the big deal. 2. when he started working he never filled out the insurance benefits with his job because he was depending on Medicaid and didn't want his job to take the money out his check for the real insurance but he fail to realize that insurance would have helped me get Aiden. good pediatrician but now especially can't do that. 3. he hasnt bought ANYTHING for Aiden at all and no money isn't everything but if u can buy $95 shoes and $40 jeans why don't I have a stroller or carseat yet and 4. he is so in a hurry to move that's all he talks about is leaving when he get his taxes my thing is u don't make enough to maintain a place on your own taxes will get you the apartment but when the tax money is gone how do u plan on keeping you with rent or bills and if ur moving do u plan on living alone of bringing us along with you as well. are we a family or nah! ugh I just wanna scream. I feel like he only thinking bout himself and not his son. @sexii_diiva and sorry this is long

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yea I understand like he is thinking for him && not for y'all as a family.. as far as medicaid && cash assistance ..food stamps.. any of that you shouldn't have told them anything about your spouse because y'all aren't married # && number 2 he can walk out anytime && you gotta fend for yourself -& figure out what you gonna do for you && the baby.. when I had my 1st Dr appt && they said how my insurance didn't cover anything they made me apply for medicaid in the Dr office && told me don't put my husnbad info on there. he was my bf at the time but we were still living together ... but yea do you ask him for money to buy stuff for the baby? because mine doesn't buy anything. but if I say gimme money to buy a swinger.. or gimme money to buy this -& that then he does it with no questions asked..sometimes men aren't hands on && just don't think so as long as he gives me money when I ask Idc.

@sexii_diiva,

I only told them because he has his own case with them and they would see we have the same address anyway so it wasn't a point in lying. and the fact we live together he won't have to pay child support but if he didn't live with me they would file child support case automatically when you're trying to get cash assistance. I been tryna avoid the whole child support thing neither of us want to do that. And sometimes I ask for money but it's not something I do all the time I don't like asking him for money but he give it to me on his own I take it ya kno @sexii_diiva

@kaymariah yea well like I said try saying we need this && that for the baby can you go get it or get the money for it. like I said I was mad at my man for not buying anything at one point. even tho he pays everything including my bills because I'm not working as much .. I still felt like he need to buy stuff for the baby.... but then I tried approaching him another way && asking for money -& now I'm happy.... I don't think he does it intentionally just I like buying things in advanced && he will wait to the day we need it... that's why I suggest maybe trying a diff approach with your man..... but idk what to say about everything else..maybe talk to him && tell him how you feel -& see what he wants out of the relationship so if he doesn't want to be bothered you can take the next step to better you && your child situation. I wish you the best of luck tho

we talked earlier and I was crying after... he yelled at me and told me don't worry about it and to believe in him and trust he will do what he needs to do and just let him do it @sexii_diiva

well that still leaves everything in the air 😑😑😑 . I hope things get better for you

Thanks @sexii_diiva