so with my first he only breastfed so when I stopped nursing him when he turned 1yr 3 months so my milk just stopped no leaking or anything...but my month old she doesn't like boobie milk...(she has to have soy formula) so there isn't a reason to pump cause it makes her sick..is it bad to just stop with out pumping..or how does drying milk up work...is heard the cabage is good..but I looked and it said not to just use cabage...idk what to do...