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So I tried talking to my bf about who sees Rowan when he's born and how I dnt want to b driving him around in the…

So I tried talking to my bf about who sees Rowan when he's born and how I dnt want to b driving him around in the beginning and he kept yelling at me saying it's all about me and I just feel like I was trying to have a conversation about something that needs to be had and he's not having it. How do u ladies get your point across? Bc soon ima make the decision myself and little does he know what I say def goes in the hospital so.

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rowansmama

avery

Trust me I try like u wouldn't even believe. But thanks I'll keep trying!!! @meejay22

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nope

Jamie

My H does the same thing and we've been together 10 years in April. I've just seen a lot of friends push their man away by not taking the time to make them understand. JMO, of course, hope all goes well!

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rowansmama

avery

Well I would do that if he actually talked. But he doesn't he just looks everywhere but at me and ignores me. And so I end up crying and leaving bc he does this everytime a hard convo happens @meejay22

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nope

Jamie

I disagree... ask him what he thinks and then listen, then explain why you want things a certain way. Telling him your way or the highway usually leads to the highway. It's his kid too, his life changing too and I'm sure some understanding will go a long. way.

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rowansmama

avery

Thanks ladies. My parent think the same thing. I just need to tell him.

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young1211

Christina Young

I agree with above. just pray for God to give you the right words but realistically anything you say as far as the newborn goes.

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lalamommy

Lala

I don't ask questions or ask permission when it comes to my newborn! I make statements! I just wanna let u know, this is what's going to happen....kinda thing! My husband and n e 1 who knows me expects nothing less because I do not play about my newborn babies! This is number 7 and ain't nobody even questioning me!!! They all know there's no point! U h as be try o show him it's about the Well being if ur child and NOTHING will cause u to compromise his/her health! Not even him yelling about things being all about u when it sounds like he just wants his way! I'd say this is an issue to pray about for sure! God can give u words and actions to follow that can not be wrong!!!! Praying with u boo! 😘😘😘

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